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My mom is at it again.

So this is how she woke me up this morning.
(Lets just say my name is Link for now)
"Link? Honey, it's 7;30, get up." So i turned around and then she sat on my feet.
"My cover stick is all gone. And i KNOW it was you."

Not a very nice way to wake a person up is it? Nope. When she sees that something in the house isn't right, she'll automatically come to me, and accuse(yes ACCUSE) Me of doing it. I don't know why in the first place sh thinks i would use her makeup until it was gone. She bought my sis her own(which she lets me use for mild acne), and it really good(and expensive)too. The thing is, She NEVER believes me. Never. Whenever she asks me something, ad i sensibly tell hr, "No, mom, it was not me", and then she freaks out on me like, "Why the hell are te lying to me!?" Whenever i say anything, she assumes its a lie, and last time, she took away my contacts! She detto she was going to take them away again to giorno when she got home. Well, I'm going to hide them anyways, so she cant get them. te know why? Because she's a bitch. I hardly think this is ANY reason to make my eyesight worse(contacts slow down the reduction of sight, mine is already at negative five). She obviously thinks that shes the high and mighty ruler of this home. And its not just this. She's done it before! She yells at me for not washing the dishes in hot water, she'll yell at m it a misplace something in MY room! She'll even yell at me if I take "too long" in the shower. da the way, her definition of too long, is ten minutes. TEN MINUTES! She's been getting on my nerves lately, and i really want to mostra her that i wasn't ling, but i don't have lie detector. Anything i say o do, is automatically converted into a lie of some kind! Don't tell me to sit down and talk, because we had a Family meeting three months ago, about weed pulling, and how if we didn't get it done, shed ground us for a month. The same with dishes, and homework. I'm 13, so i still have 5 years left of this crap to deal
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i'm sorry that happens. omg, and i really do believe each and every single word te say. *hugs you*
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you're welcome!
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BabyBlud said:
Well apart from sitting down and talking to her about your feelings and talking about the problem and how to handle it. there's nothing really anything else te can do.
Your mother is right though. It is her house and it is her rules and te just have to deal with it.
But the one thing i don't agree on is your mother taking your contacts away, that could injure your eye-sight even more.
I have a few domande - is your mother on any medication for anything? Like anti-biotics o depression? These could be why she's recitazione the way she is.
It could also be some other health issue, such as a brain injury gone undetected o something along those lines.
But that is only if it is out of character for her to act like that.
I suggest te call your grandma o talk to your dad about it, if te don't want to talk to your mother. o te could talk to your teachers at school o the school councillor who could probably give te some idea on how to deal with stressful situations like that.
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writer67 said:
hang in there Link, te must be a favourite, i beleive you. but to take away your sight. grr. some so called parents, hope her eyesight doesnt fail. best answer, say sorry, even when te are innocent it saves time for them. te thought it was rubbish.but your sister can get away with alot that te can not. i do hope she is a gr8 sister and stands up for you. i hope te do not grow up like her. focus on study, and maybe sit closer to the teacher since it will be hard for te to see. keep doing the chores set for you,and be like cinderaala, i know it hurts, but it willmake te stronger for when te have kids one day. 10 min shower, have 9 min. dress badly, if te are not allowed to be her daughter, be her servant if that what she demands, and weed pulling meeting;-[ sounds like mum could use a freind o a night out. im glad te are a good servant girl. pity te too are drifting apart. when your older te will sposta away and so will sis. who is going to visit her, sad sorry ass. its not hard to be a great parent, no smacks no nasty words and no blame. respect. its hard yet easy all at once.keep your chin up, maybe she should come on fanpop, i will be nice, im married, but am allowed to have freinds. what is she a fan of;-]
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GoldnSnitch_96 said:
Tell her ur sick of her shit, she seems to be goin nuts at te alot for nit picky things, so just tell her to step off. Hold your ground, try to point out to her that she is being irrational. Mabey make a video secretly of her raging at te and mostra it to her, then she might see how pshyco she is getting. Rly? Taking ur OWN CHILDS contacts? Bit far...
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KohakuJSMA said:
i know how te feel. :'(

just pray about it, and when te sing break-up o "hate" songs, te know why te sing'em. so, that's my advice. i'm sorry it isn't enough, but... yeah. GOD bless you, LinkKinuzuma13! <3
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 i know how te feel. :'( just pray about it, and when te sing break-up o "hate" songs, te know why te sing'em. so, that's my advice. i'm sorry it isn't enough, but... yeah. GOD bless you, LinkKinuzuma13! <3
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Thanks a ton! GOD bless te too! <3
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