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look my boyfriend and i are having a little bit of a problem there are some things we are both involved in and well during the activities he gets to overprotective but I still want to with him he is hot but it gets a little bit scary when he gets into overprotective boyfriend mode what should I do
 JazzLover101 posted più di un anno fa
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sarabeara said:
Okay. There are two types of protective: the good kind and the bad kind.

Good kind: for example, doesn't want te to do drugs cause he doesn't want te to ruin your future.

Bad kind: for example, doesn't want te to hang out with any guy friends, wants te to spend più time with him and less time with your other friends, wants te to quit sports o club cause you're "neglecting" him.

So it really depends on the situation. Now if he's getting so protective to the point that he's scaring you, that a BAD BAD thing.

I know te probably don't care about my similar experience, but I used to have this boyfriend named Brad who was bipolar. He would freak out cuz I was just talking to other guys. He'd randomly get angry at me for things that weren't my fault (like not calling him back because I was busy studying). He'd always like interrogate me like "where were te last night?" "who were te with?" I got so sick of it that I finally broke up with him. He practically begged to get me back but I was done. I wouldn't take him back. Then like a mese later I got a new boyfriend. Brad got so angry and tried to beat up my new boyfriend. I'm so glad now that I got away from him.

So basically, here's my point: there's a BIG difference between protectiveness and posessiveness (like he wants to control what te do and whom te hang out with).

Lastly, if you're only with this guy cause he's "hot" that's NOT a good enough reason to stay with him. My advice: end the relationship before things become too serious and before he has a chance to try and control you.
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He is a good guy and doesn't try to control me
JazzLover101 posted più di un anno fa
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Thanks broke up with him :(
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monsy38 said:
That depends on what it is te are involved in. It might be a bad thing and that's why he's so overprotective. However, if it's not than it means that he really likes you, but if te think that this is too much worrying from him than te need to tell him to give te your space. Also if te only like him because he is hot than perhaps you're not into him for the right reason. It's still obvious that te guys are totally into each other so i would try to work it all out, like promise to be più carefull and he promises to not overreact. If it EVER goes past only scaring te (And even that is already bad) than te need to leave him. You're in a relationship to be happy, not to be afraid
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thats just a fact
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Thanks broke up with him :(
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teamsalvatore98 said:
My boyfriend does the same.i like it when he punches someone and his camicia gets torn..;p;p;p;p;p
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