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I'm not too confident in myself...

The reason I say this is because I feel I'm not a good enough person. I feel like I'm an awful person to everyone. People say I'm nice, but I don't feel nice enough, ya know. I feel like people rather be with anyone but me. I feel boring. I feel I'm too quiet unless I'm with my parents o my aunt. I feel my laugh is too weird, and that's why I try not to joke around because eventually, I do laugh and it ends up sounding... creepy. Hardly anyone even tries to speak to me except my friend back at school. He's the only one I can actually talk to about anything, but... I don't know. I just want to be a better person. I want più people to like me and actually want to talk to me...

...How do I create a better me? I'll give props to the ones who answer. :)

Thanks if te answer. I'll appreciate it a lot. <3
 VelvParkk posted più di un anno fa
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MineTurtle5 said:
I know it's easier detto than done, but just be yourself. And don't worry about what other people think of you. Just overlook your flaws. Learn to accept yourself just the way te are.

Trust me, if te do this, te will be a più confident person.
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posted più di un anno fa 
Thunderhorse007 said:
Two words: Mad Swag. Swagger comes from within; te can't expect to please everyone. Just be yourself. Have a great sense of humor (but don't laugh obnoxiously), if te don't like your laugh try to change it to a chuckle. I laugh loud and proud, and I could not care less about what people think. te can't be a shadow, not associating with anybody. Get out! Meet new people, explore new things. Express your opinions without a care in the world; just put it to them nicely. I talk a little too much, I can be weird sometimes, I overconfident, and everybody loves me. I'm one of the most popolare kids in school because of my personality; so why not you? Get out there and mostra them your stuff!
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xXxJDloverxXx said:
te sound a lot like me...

It seems like te have low self esteem and maybe some depression from this, te sound quite self conscious around people and what they think of you, you're probably a really nice/fun person, but te let the consciousness take over and that makes te think you're not a nice person, the people that try to speak to te are probably the same, they WANT to speak and start a conversation but it can be hard to do as it's hard to just randomly speak lots about random things sometimes, maybe find something that te and another person have in common (like maybe te both like the same TV show) and talk about that, o te could unisciti a few club that you're interested in (like a Sports club o something) then you'd definitely have something in common there!
te could try doing Volunteering, te meet loads of new people at events and stuff plus you'd feel better about yourself knowing you've helped someone else.

Everyone probably thinks te are a very nice person, te just need to convince yourself! =)
Hope this helped a bit.
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posted più di un anno fa 
AlOoOosh said:
-No one in this world is good enough , but te must Amore yourself , and that's how te make other people Amore te .

-People who blame themselves and say they aren't good enough are probably very good people , because that represents that te have feelings and te judge yourself when te do something wrong :)

-Don't te worry about your laugh , te can change it .
Let me tell te a secret , once I had a really weird laugh , but I've changed into a better one :)
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
te know im jest like you...nobody at church school ect. likes me. but u know wut...the best way to get Friends is to talk to them. dont act all...WEIRD like used to act. if people dont jest like whom te are then THE HECK WITH THEM! cuz if te feel confident and strong te will pick up Friends a tone faster! plz lisin to me cuz i know how te feel and i worked my way up! ^_^ lisin...i was bullied da a boy and a girl bro and sis my whole live! and STILL AM being bullied at da them! not to long fa i told that idiot Katie to back off cuz she dosnt know ANYTHING about me! I told her shes a jerk and a plain bullie! and gess wut! after i stopped allowing people to bullie me...i have 3 AWSOME TRUSTING FRIENDS! and if te need più Friends ill be your friend! ^_^ jest remember to NEVER GIVE IN!!
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 te know im jest like you...nobody at church school ect. likes me. but u know wut...the best way to get Friends is to talk to them. dont act all...WEIRD like used to act. if people dont jest like whom te are then THE HECK WITH THEM! cuz if te feel confident and strong te will pick up Friends a tone faster! plz lisin to me cuz i know how te feel and i worked my way up! ^_^ lisin...i was bullied da a boy and a girl bro and sis my whole live! and STILL AM being bullied at da them! not to long fa i told that idiot Katie to back off cuz she dosnt know ANYTHING about me! I told her shes a jerk and a plain bullie! and gess wut! after i stopped allowing people to bullie me...i have 3 AWSOME TRUSTING FRIENDS! and if te need più Friends ill be your friend! ^_^ jest remember to NEVER GIVE IN!!
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