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How can I break up my best friend and ex-boyfriend without making it obvious?

About a mese fa I broke up with my boyfriend. My best friend had the nerve to ask him out even though she knew I still liked him! And I only broke up with him because I got tierd of her say 'break up with him' all the freakin time and her mom giving me lectures about why I should break up with him. Now she is going out with him and they are like constantly making out in front of me! How can I try to break them up without making it obvious that I'm trying to break them up?
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Her mum was giving te lectures on why te should break up with him? Thats...low. Your friend doesn't seem very nice. She actually sounds rather self-centered. If she wanted te to break up with your boyfriend for her own gain, then she's not a friend. She should care about you. Also, what was her mother saying to you?
Night-Sky posted più di un anno fa
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Ok, I haven't spoken to that girl in like 5 months and now me and the guy are going out and on the 30th it will our 2 mese anniversery. I didn't even have to do anything. I did have 2 wait after 2 other chicks that he broke up with after like a week but yea all is well in my Amore life now yay!
me_who_else posted più di un anno fa
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It is so hard dealing with <3 and I am in 6 grade I'm not 13 I just did that to crest and account
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teamedward22945 said:
i think te should talk to your friend and your ex, and tell them how te feel, and maybe tell them if they are going to make out o do anything that te may not like, to not do it infront of you. and since he still loves te and te still Amore him, just be happy knowing that. if your best friend and ex are going out and their happy, then that should make te happy. that happened to me. my best friend went out with the guy i liked but he liked us both. and i dint like it. but she was happy so i was too. but now he broke up with her, and says hes gonna ask me out..... (srry im blabbing) anyways the point is.... dont break them up. just be happy for them and maybe just have that little talk.
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posted più di un anno fa 
jameswilson said:
Sounds like its not worth your time.
A friend like that doesn't sound like much of a friend at all and trying to break them up will only put te at their level.
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posted più di un anno fa 
Sappp said:
Don't.

te broke up with him.

Your friend might not be innocent in this, but te broke up with your ex.

Now he has someone else, but te choose to end it.

Don't ruin his happiness because te are jealous now. If te really care for him, you'll let him be happy.


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posted più di un anno fa 
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no! She broke up becuz her friend was sooo anoying!
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teamsalvatore98 said:
Wow this is gonna sound really mean but,is she happy?Do te like seeing her happy?I see from your prospective,but id rather be sad than see my friend sad.just tell her te still like him and that te feel uncomfortable with them baciare right in front of you.dont let it get to you.
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 Wow this is gonna sound really mean but,is she happy?Do te like seeing her happy?I see from your prospective,but id rather be sad than see my friend sad.just tell her te still like him and that te feel uncomfortable with them baciare right in front of you.dont let it get to you.
posted più di un anno fa 
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she is not emo.
low--- posted più di un anno fa
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nevverrr detto she was?
teamsalvatore98 posted più di un anno fa
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^^ tee hee?
teamsalvatore98 posted più di un anno fa
writer67 said:
why waste time over old news, find a new one, o one of his friends, o stuff it all, and stay single, o have a secret bf, from another school, they dont know, o even buy yourself a gift from the secret admirer ;-]
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posted più di un anno fa 
eric_eric said:
Why would te do that obviously he doesn't want te just leave him alone and ditch the friend
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posted più di un anno fa 
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He detto that he does still Amore me. But he isn't going to break up with Sarah (best friend) because he is afraid that I'm lying and I'm not gonna ditch Sarah cuz she is like totaly freakin awsome other than the whole Tyler (ex-boyfriend) thing
me_who_else posted più di un anno fa
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do what te want it's your life
eric_eric posted più di un anno fa
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oh i didn't get played, I've been played before and know how it feels. This isn't how it feels. And just so every1 that has actually tryed to give a good answer, Tyler broke up with Sarah and is going to ask me out. I didn't even do anything to make that happen. And I ditched Sarah, she's a totaly cagna and she was just using me. Thanks every1.
me_who_else posted più di un anno fa
Rodz said:
How could te still be bestfriends with someone like that? If someone is a good friend, they wouldn`t betray te from the first place. But its your life, te do whatever feels better for you. Still, she could betray te once again for sure.. And if he really still loved you.. he wouldn`t keep making out with your friend infront of te on purpose.. Sounds like none of them are worthed really!
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posted più di un anno fa 
god-of-love said:
well i think that u should talk to her and let her know how u feel,if i dosent work then talk to him and tell him that u still have feelings for him.well i hope this works i did to my sister so maybe it will.bye-bye
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posted più di un anno fa 
Hidanfan said:
y did u break up w/ him if u had feelings 4 em still...but i would tell em how yah feel bout the situation and c how it works out from there...
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gleswigiagirl said:
tell your ex why te broke up with him and tell your best friend how te feel about her making te brake up with him so that she could have him to her self!!!
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posted più di un anno fa 
MISSLOVATOSTAR1 said:
WAIT A MIN ! Your friend kept saying break up with him ,you did , and now your friend is going out with him . She must of ben liking him when te were dating him . if i had a friend like that , i would yell at her so much she would lose her hearing , but thats just me , te should tell your friend how te feel , and how wrong she was to do that to te , and if shes your real friend she'll leave him ! NOW !!!
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posted più di un anno fa 
daddiesgirl said:
Don't even go through with this! I say this in the nicest way possible, but maybe your friend is happy with this guy. I kno it hurts to have her play te like this but that was her choice, not yours. Just let her be even tho she backstabbed te and you'll find that things just "fall into place"
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posted più di un anno fa 
breakthemup said:
Try this website service: link

For a fee they will help te break up a couple.
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Oneknightstands said:
Fuck him.
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Nayeli53 said:
my advice: DITCH THEM BOTH. the same thing (except that it was backwords) happened to me. ny bf had broken up with my bff and now im going out with him. when i talk to my bff, i dont talk anything bout him. we just talk bout other things. i keep it delicate. if she was your true friend then she wouldnt be hurting u like that. thats wat i do when im talking to my bff; i try to not hurt her. hope i helped.
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vanessao said:
do the same thing your friend did
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Miranda-Cullen said:
im good at this kind of thing all te have to do is tell your friend te seen him with another girl and they were makeing out and te told him it was wrong bt he wouldnt listen to you. it works i do it all the time just to make my ex mad and he kknows that i do it but he cant prove it cause he was the idiot that desided to data my best friend
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posted più di un anno fa 
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Is it really worth it though? Just asking :)
TeamGomez posted più di un anno fa
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That's a bit of an immature way to go about it.
robothor1111 posted più di un anno fa
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that is sooo imature r u 1
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candyland12 said:
i think te should just not be her friend and ask the guys if he will sex te
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lovejuan said:
maybe your friend really likes him maybe shes liked him for a long time and it was pritty rong of her to tell u to break up with him so she can go out with him but sometimes girls put the boy first cause she falls for him and nothing else matters but i would never break them up because if i wanted to be a really good friend even if she wasnt just talk to her and tell her that u still really like him and u really dont want her to go out with him and if she says no then ask her to atleast not to makeout with him infront of u and if she still doesnt listen then eathier get over it and deal with it o u can if ur mad go out with her ex o u can just tell her that u dont want to be Friends and sposta on
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posted più di un anno fa 
low--- said:
a. Talk to your "Best Friend" And say things like, ciao do te wanna hang out? Oh wait no, te will probualy with, (his name)


b. Talk to her and him and tell him she is being a real jerk. Don't be in there face but just ask her questions. Talk to them seprate if possible and be nice.

c. forget about it.


d. try to find another guy that she likes and spend time with him ALL the time. When She is over talk about him and say funny stories about him.


e. Do the same to her. te should break up. te should break up. te should break up.


F.try and make it possible that he can 2-time. If i does, your best friend and the girl will be mad and te can get him. (This one depends on who he is and who te are.)
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posted più di un anno fa 
TheRealCB said:
What kind of friend would basiclly steal ur bf? That's pretty cold....If she was ur real friend, she woulden't do that. And if te were a SMART friend, te would stop talking to her. mostra her who's boss.


On the secondo hand, good luck. I relise this isin't the BEST consigli ever...but yeah..
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posted più di un anno fa 
vampiressJazz said:
She sounds like a real bitch. if she really knew te she would understand that te still like it and she wouldn't go out with him let a long make out with him in front of you.

And if her mum even wanted te to break up with him so her precious little brat of a daughter could go out with him, then i suggest te ditch her and find better Friends who respect you. hope it goes well (:
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LoveFrom said:
OMG thats so mean!!!I mean your friend is soooo mean & her mother god!!!

MAke new friends! dont diviso, spalato them up just make new Friends and meet a new guy. I cant believe te call her your friend. thats mean and she had her mum on it aswel.

So back to my advice, make new Friends seriously dont call her a friend cuz a friend wouldnt do that to you. Dont diviso, spalato them u that makes te the worst person for splitting them up make new Friends and meet a new guy!!
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CORRIE123 said:
dont be selfish tell your bestfriend whats happning!!!
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retrolove83 said:
don't bother. They both sound like scum to me. Just quit being Friends with them both.
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