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Is it okay to not have a boyfriend o even a crush on a boy at my age?

I'm 14 and already in high school. And I've noticed something, pretty much everyone is either crushing o being crushed(HA! Justin likes Valerie XD).

Why hasn't this sort of stuff been happening to me yet?

The only thing close to that is way back in the 4th grade and a boy was all flirty to me and stuff....OH WHY DIDN'T I UNDERSTAND Amore BACK THEN! WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER!!! ....wow la minestra, zuppa opera much... -.-


Anyway,,,can anyone tell me why this "love" is taking way too long >-< *getting pissed*


 NoahFanNumber1 posted più di un anno fa
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Vixie79 said:
Yes, it's okay not to be crushing on anyone at your age o dating anyone either. There isn't any rules pertaining to when te should o shouldn't anyway, it's up to you. You're still young, te should go out and have fun and be yourself. Don't worry about guys and don't try to be pressured into thinking your strange about not having feelings for anyone. It's not important, it will come naturally to te later and if not, that's still okay too.
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Great answer. I agree.
Moonbeam1953 posted più di un anno fa
Heartisalone said:
You're probably just not attracted to any of the boys around you.
I think it's good not to start too much Amore and romance in school and wait until your done.
te can focus più on your work.
And plus the whole Boyfriend/Girlfriend thing in school usually doesn't last too long...
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true, true. thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted più di un anno fa
TotalDramaChick said:
Of course. It's absouluty okay. When I was in 5th grade i didn't like ANYBODY. My Friends would say " Whats wrong with so and so loves te soo much and te don't like him back???" .. Now I'm your age and i'm going into my sophmore year. (that dosen't have to do with anything xD) Well maybe you're just not ready, o maybe your scared people are gonna find out who te like, o nervous your gonna get made fun of. I don't know. Well hope this works out soon. :)
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I also agree with Heartisalone too. I think mine dosen't make any sense..
TotalDramaChick posted più di un anno fa
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^I like both :) thanks
NoahFanNumber1 posted più di un anno fa
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You're welcome :)
TotalDramaChick posted più di un anno fa
deathroman13 said:
You're only 14 so don't worry.

I have the same and I'm almost 17.
I do hang out a lot with boys but I don't have a crush and I'm not in love.
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snapeislove said:
Well, I don't think it's normal (as the whole world thinks) but I am 17 and I don't have a crush at the moment.

If it comes, it does. Keep that in mind. :D
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sehdt said:
We all do things at different rates. I am 36 had boyfriends in the past. But not any più I do have friendships with boys and men and I do have a crush but I am not in love. Unless te are one of those to whom it never happens but even if it is its te and your life so dont worry just be you. Otherwise I am sure it will happen.
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almuno01 said:
Dont worry lol same here but don worry u still haave your whole life to find someone
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iluvsmj said:
well ur in highschool so yeah te can date.
14 idk te should wait til 16
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CornChips said:
It's fine, there's no rule that says te have to have a crush on someone. I wish I was like te at the moment, I got a crush that I want to go away now lol xD
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Thats hard when te can not get them out of your head.
sehdt posted più di un anno fa
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Very true .__.
CornChips posted più di un anno fa
wierdgem7 said:
It's totally fine. I'm single, and I find it can help because te can discover yourself, and be independent. Stay focused on te and YOUR dreams. Anyway, some of these crushes can get SERIOUSLY messed up. If te like someone and they don't like te back, that is sooooooooooo embarassing.
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xVanilla-Saltx said:
It's perfectly fine. I'm happily single, too - and not interested in dating right now. Sometimes, the people who te can have crushes on aren't really all that desirable. At this age there will still be a lot of immature boys, and te should feel proud that te haven't jumped into the dating pool just because everybody else has. It makes no difference in who te are, o your self-worth. It's extremely normal; some people don't even start dating until after college. I wouldn't worry about it - let nature take it's course and you'll find the one who te are meant to be with, opposed to forcing yourself to do what's considered 'normal' da your peers. Enjoy the freedom of being single; there are things that te won't be able to do when you're in a relationship! It's perfectly normal. Good luck.
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rkz18 said:
It's totally natural to not be attracted to boys. Most women aren't. te probably won't start liking these "boys" until they turn into "men". And puberty is not over yet for you, try time learning who te are. This is a wonderful time, where te actually have the time to learn about yourself. Males take way to much time.
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Brittanagleefan said:
Yes. But people are always recitazione like it's impossible not to have a crush on anyone, it sucks.
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