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MissKitty28 said:
In my opinion, Buffy's true Amore is Spike. I have no doubt about it. Because Buffy & Spike, it's not about idealisation, it's not about fantasy, it's about two people who know each other, and fall in Amore with each other, exactly because they know each other. They have seen the best and the worst of each other, and when they say "I Amore you", it's just the truth. And it's più powerful than all the Bangel's "I Amore you". Because they know who the other is. Spuffy is a grownup relationship, with powerful feelings. Always there for each other, they know each other, they trust each other, they understand each other, they communicate, and they have this unique connection... Spuffy is just an evidence. It's not always easy, but they crossed barriers, and from my point of view, that's real life. Their relationship is mature, real and intense. I don't believe in the Bangel's relationship. Bangel is più the symbol of first Amore and pure love. But there are so many weaknesses in their relationship. The biggest problem it's not malediction, it's all these things who make a couple : communication, comprehension, presence, trust, complicity... I don't see those elements in Bangel. più time passes, least they are credible. I think that after all these years, Buffy idealizes so much her relationship with him, and it’s the reason why she keeps Angel in her mind. It doesn’t mean ‘eternal love’ o ‘soulmates’ o 'true love' (and I totally disagree with people who thinks that). She thinks that it could be a perfect relationship because she never really had the opportunity to live it with him – fantasy/ idealisation (like Bangel) is always better than reality. Because of the malediction, they don’t have seen the most important in a relationship. And it doesn’t work on so many levels (communication, trust, knowledge of the other…etc). So, from my point of view, *this*, it's not true love. I don't think they're still in Amore with each other. They're in Amore with a memory of their relationship. Chosen proved that they moved on. Originally, Angel should talk to Buffy about Connor and about the fact that he's in Amore with Cordy. And Buffy is clearly in Amore with Spike ! (look both seasons 6 and 7 !). It's an evolution over time. She chooses him over Angel. She chooses him as her champion. The baciare proved that this Bangel idealization is always there. But they have grown up... So yes, no doubt, Buffy's true Amore is Spike ♥ Because it was real, powerful, and they deserve their chance after Chosen. (I'm sorry for my bad english, I'm a French fan, I hope it's understandable).
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