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Please help a christian who needs it :'(

I have never told anyone this, not my parents, not my friends, (you'll see why) nor my siblings.

I was a little kid, I had switched schools, from 1st Grade, to 2nd, I had found new Friends to accompany my GT classes, I had found about 5 Friends when I got there (and I was really shy, so I was proud with myself :) ) Im not telling the names so if they read this they wont know... They seemed very nice at the beginning snd I was beginning to know più about them, but as that happened, I found that they weren't actually very nice, they cussed constantly, (it started in about 3rd Grade), they talked about più disgusting things like sex, private parts, etc. And I didn't want to be their Friends anymore, but I couldn't just stop! I was stuck with them in the class! So I stayed "friends", and the più they grew with me, the less I liked them. Until I REALLY hated them, they cussed at their own classmates, ME, and the teacher sometimes with the teacher noticing. One of my "friends" even watched porn, I was shocked when I figured out they did, they also detto THEY were Christians, and when I asked them how, they said, "OH, I have like 5 (bleeping) bibles in my house!" It was obvious they didn't know what being a true Christian was :'( I felt sad. Please tell me what to do! Even my dad went through something like this, but in the streets! If te guys could help me through middle school, that would be a huge help, i'm sorry if I wasted your time with this huge paragraph ;(
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te did not waste my time & I am glad te ask... (My answer actually took several attempts through computers problems, etc, but I wanted te to get it, to see te can be loved and have Friends who ARE what te need and sometimes we have to wait. God is all we really need and He can be a friend. Now ask Him. :)
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 DannyGassy posted più di un anno fa
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PucksLady said:
ciao now don't worry about the large paragraph!

Wow, this is a big problem! I've never had to deal with this, thank God, but I do have "friends" who are terrible people. The best way to deal with this, that I can think of, is to just ignore them. They are terrible people, and they do not know what it means to be a true Christian. I wouldn't say anything, though, because if te do, they might say that you're shoving your "religion" down their throats (I have had experience with that).

However, if they start bad-mouthing Christianity, te do need to stand up for what te believe in. Don't be afraid to do that! Call on Christ as your protecter and ask Him to give te the right words to say.

I hope I helped, and feel free to message me if te need anything. :)
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coriann said:
wow Danny, im so sorry, i understand the pain te must feel, Danny, i was a Christian once, and before te start judging me, just listen...
I went through the same thing, and I wondered, where on earth are all the other Christians? I began to feel lonely, I didn't have such a good ending, but te can!

I know this might seem hard for you, and it must make te angry to think that your friend calls him/herself a Christian,
but Danny, te need to take a deep breath and put all of this aside, look inside yourself, te know who te are but te also know that te have to stay in school.

te stay Friends with them, te need to open up your mind to these people, don't judge them, try to understand why they do the things they do, then, maybe if te can understand them, te will not feel so upset with them anymore. Get along with them because in a dangerous place like school, te need to have friends, te need to have people who have your back,

te may not understand these friends, im not saying te have to be best Friends with them, but, the bible says to Amore your enemy and pray for those who persecute you, judge not and te shall not be judged.
te know who te are, that's the most important thing, and there are plenty of people out there that feel the same way as te and te will find them eventually! :D and you'll be really happy, in the mean time hang in there baby, lol i don't want te to end up like me

i hope this was good advice! ^ ^
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Coriann - te know I Amore ya bunches Hunny, but if te have turned AWAY from God, then why are te even answering someone's domanda HERE. I can't judge te to even ask te why te are here, though, in truth I wonder, as this is a "Christianity" Club & te say te aren't... but people come here to hear from Christians and not non-Christians. They could go anywhere else for that consigli and I hope te understand what I am trying to say isn't saying te have nothing good to offer, I am just wondering why te answer f they are ASKINg o needing something else?
Sinna_Hime_chan posted più di un anno fa
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te have A LOT of good to offer and say some wonderful things~ I Amore you... and it is NOT an end for te Baby Gurl, like te said, it is a beginning and never ever too late while te have breath I hope sooner than later te can find your way back to God because te are precious.
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:) thx Sin, lol, te know i will, not like i can stay away from y'all ;)
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Sinna_Hime_chan said:
Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are & just because a Christian isn't perfect o has faults -doesn't mean they aren't, people can be false as te saw very clearly with your eyes about your Friends - now look at yourself.

God brings us up to learn. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think te were wrong to stay Friends with those classmates. To me that shows te were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here o there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing.

As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues o about what anyone else is doing o thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are dato guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable o confusing..... God makes things più simple than for people without Him.

The simple thing here is seeing that te needed people of "positive" support, who lift te in positive ways & directions... Friends who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference.

This is your personal journey.
This is also how God hones us and weeds us out.
te will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If te feel te lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in Gesù name will be dato according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what te ask for) ASK for God to surround te with the positive people HE wants for te in your life.

Don't feel bad for letting them go.
Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me o imagined them-it hurt me the way te acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that te can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself da the blessings of seeking Him. Because te care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help te (*esp when te seek Him o ask).

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[b]Just because someone says they are a Christian doesn't mean they are[/b] & [b]just because a Christian isn't perfect o has faults -doesn't mean they aren't[/b], people can be false as te saw very clearly with your eyes about your Friends - [b]now look at yourself[/b]. [b]God brings us up to learn[/b]. All throughout the Bible were many trials, tribulations, choices & lessons to help us. Personally I think te were wrong to stay Friends with those classmates. To me that shows te were not strong. I must have super hero strength then for the choices I have faced, (not really) because even being able to make a good choice here o there, I am NOT the one who is strong- GOD IS; it is He who is in me & God who enables that ability. I still get very sad, I still falter. My point is life isn't about others (though we can learn from watching them), it is about trying to make better & better decisions ourselves & about growing. As a Christian it is supposed to be about faith & not caring about worldly issues o about what anyone else is doing o thinking but caring about what God thinks & about how we feel about it with the Holy Spirit inside as our compass. We are dato guidance and a conscience. These "lofty" ideals really are not unabtainable o confusing..... God makes things più simple than for people without Him. The simple thing here is seeing that te needed people of "positive" support, who lift te in positive ways & directions... Friends who "relate" to you, in actions, heart, & spirit because it makes a WORLD of difference. This is your personal journey. This is also how God hones us and weeds us out. te will have difficult decisions throughout your life. If te feel te lack something- PRAY for it. Anything asked in Gesù name will be dato according to His will. ASK for strength & (being careful what te ask for) ASK for God to surround te with the positive people HE wants for te in your life. Don't feel bad for letting them go. Maybe they have never heard anyone tell them, "I am sorry, we're friends, but I don't think this is how I wanted things to be for me o imagined them-it hurt me the way te acted because it made me feel bad. It just is not what I need to be around because that isn't what I want to do. Sorry." and if they are jerks they are gonna act like jerks. Life gets hard. This is all about learning so that te can do better and deal better and please God and then be blessed and pleased yourself da the blessings of seeking Him. Because te care -you will see God cares very much too. He always cares about you. He will always help te (*esp when te seek Him o ask). [url=http://www.wikihow.com/Decide-if-Your-Friend-is-a-True-Friend]Real/True Friend o Not?[/url]
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...and what Coriann said, about looking at your Friends and trying to understand where they are at too- don't burn your bridge o be too harsh o judgemental, don't be ugly to them, but people do grow apart and te do not have to sit in the sede, sedile of the scoffer nor stand in the path of the sinner to Amore your enemies and bless those that curse you. te can be a postive example for them, but don't let "them" drag "you" down ;)
Sinna_Hime_chan posted più di un anno fa
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Thanks, your answer really helped :')
DannyGassy posted più di un anno fa
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d'awe! look te got me blushin! ^ ^ thx Sin, im glad to hear somebody actually appreciates all the stuff i post! te know i really put a lot of time into some of my posts, like the one on gays going to heaven, i spent all morning researching for that, no it was fun really, i was actually bored out of my mind so again thx a lot and i really like te too! i enjoy posting with you! ^ ^
coriann posted più di un anno fa
natalierg said:
Don't worry about the paragraph, it's not even that big and Scrivere helps te vent. Life can get tough and bumpy sometimes but it's important to never stray from God. te should leave those "friends" because even though it's hard it's better to have no Friends than "friends" who bring te down in your faith and just in general. te should look into a thing called Lift Camp. It is AMAZING and brings te soooooo much closer to God.
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MineTurtle5 said:
Those people who call themselves Christians, and yet live in sin, are called 'lukewarm'. And that's very dangerous.
God says in Revelation 3:16 that he will spit the lukewarm Christians out of his mouth.
Also, those lukewarm Christians who are doing just enough, get just enough of the Lord to get by, risk missing Him altogether.

If te haven't already talked to them about what they're doing is wrong, do that. If they still ignore you, pray for them, if te haven't started already
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