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dibattito Should Boys be allowed to wear skirts to school?
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Yes. After all, girls can wear trousers to school.
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No, it's simply not normal.
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Apprantly, their was this school who punished a boy for wearing a skirt to school, and gave him detention. They then banned boys from wearing any feminine item to school eg- Make-up, jewellry (sans watches), hair accesories and skirts. Do you think it was right to ban boys from wearing skirts?
Personal oppinion- well, girls can wear trousers to school without hassle, so why not dudes in skirts too, if they wanted. I don't believe it was a fair ban. i think it was hypocritical and ridiculous.
Totally, i'm wearing jeans as we speak. I'm just saying, 50 years ago, girls weren't meant to wear trousers as it wasn't seen as "Normal" but now loads of girls do and no one cares.
But I also wouldn't wear a Skirt.
However, with transgendered boys or boys seeking to identify themselves and live as women, I see no problem with it.
LOL, and here it goes... xD
Interesting. Out of curiosity, how do you see that working? In my experience, when it comes to freedom of expression in schools, if you aren't a straight, stereo-typical cis, white Christian, everything you do is unacceptable and "they" will constantly try and stop you from doing anything that goes against the "straight, stereo-typical cis, white Christian" mold.
How exactly do Christians "have it tough"?
But i'm no expert.
1.Is the skirt short or long- I think we have a hard time with girls wearing too short of skirts, it doesn't need to be a guy problem too
2. Is the skirt for a expression of culture-if its something for the Renaissance or another European theme, then its fine. People wear clothes to express a culture, head coverings, dashikis, and some even all black (English Punk style). So it is fair
I know a good counter would be girls wear trousers so why can't guys wear skirts. Well I have been to several areas of the world and the school that wear uniforms. It is standard that guys wear pants and girls wear skirts, it may be tolerated for girls to wear trousers, but its was an absolute no no for a guy to wear a skirt.
In the army females because they are joining a more male-based (i don't know a good word) organization for it is ok for females to wear trousers if they do, although skirts are provided. You would never see a male soldier at a ball wearing a skirt.
In a summary, if it ain't broke don't fix it.
And what is your reasoning for guys not wearing skirts? You really haven't given a reason. Your "if it ain't broke" doesn't make very much sense in this context, because most people have been inferring that something (society) is broken (having a double standard for no legitimate reason), and needs to be fixed.
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fair enough. I don't see "why" guy should wear skirts I gave my exception in my 2 point. I reason that sense most uniform like schools don't have guy wear skirts (a institution for learning) and the military (an large respected organization) doesn't let guys were skirts then why should guys wear skirts in school. Hence the "ain't broken" part of my phrase.
And the military doesn't allow women to wear skirt either, because they aren't practical. It has nothing to do with gender, it has to do with the safety of the military personnel. And not everyone is in the military, or dresses according to military code, so I don't see why that's even part of your argument.
Guys should wear skirts for the same reason girls do: because they want to. If a guy wants to wear a skirt, why shouldn't he be able to?
2.Um yes they do, I believe the Navy does and other branches but i understand I should have said at balls or meetings, not on active duty.
3.I used private schools and the military as a bases for what is respectable attire on a universal level, if they don't wear it, then it can mean others may or may not approve of the outfit or ensemble (i think i spelled it right), ie showing tattoos, having cleavage shown, or pants too low on the ground etc.
4.People can do whatever they want to however I am trying to center my opinion on a school campus not a public setting. The question is about in school not outside of school.
2. If you were talking about instances where they weren't wearing their uniform, then their uniform isn't relevant to anything. Again, I'm at a loss as to where you're going with this.
3. I understand that. But there's a bigger world than what you're used to. You can't slap a rule on every school in existence, or judge every school, because of the few you've been exposed to.
4. Again, I'm not seeing the relevance. You haven't given any reason, at all, as to why it's not okay for guys to wear skirts in school.
2.If one of the most respectable organizations don't let men wear skirts on "duty hours" dress uniform or not. Why would we let men in school wear skirts
3.I just gave my opinion, I find it strange to honest yes. I fail to see the purpose, the functionality of why a man would wear a skirt, but that has little to do with my opinion. My greatest confusions why "in" school, why in school should a guy wear clothes that are fitting.
I mean I don't ever recall during my primary or secondary years of learning a guy demanding to wear a skirt because girls were allowed to wear skirts. Not only in my opinion is that kind of a shallow reason to wear a skirt but also not a very convincing.
If a guy has such an emotional attachment to wearing a skirt that is one things but just because girls wear skirts (which comes with its own hell) they should wear skirts?
I mean I could be blind, can you give me a good reason why boys should be allowed to wear skirts in school besides the fact that girls wear skirts.
2. Do you have any proof that there are no military men that wear skirts off duty?
Again, their uniforms don't allow skirts because skirts aren't practical for their jobs. You wouldn't wear a wet-suit to work in a greenhouse, would you? No, because it's not practical for walking around in warm, humid temperatures. This is the same thing.
3. But I'm asking why. You haven't given any reason as to why you think it's not okay.
I've met lots of guys who like wearing skirts. Hell, I've dated guys that liked wearing skirts (and dresses). Again,the world is much, much larger than your experiences with it.
I didn't say guys want to wear skirts because girls do. I said guys, just like girls, want to wear skirts. They want to wear them because they want to, Guys enjoy wearing skirts, like the way they look in skirts, the way skirts feels, and because it goes best with what they're wearing. What I said was guys want to wear skirts for the same reasons girls do.
I think guys should be allowed to wear skirts because I believe in equality, and that people should be able to dress in whatever way they want to.
3. I think that is the issue we both are having, you are discussing the "ability" to wear skirts period. I am saying they shouldn't be allowed "in school". I already have an opinion on guys wearing skirts, big turn off because they look like they want to be really girly same way I feel with a girl with a buzz cut, and showing off tattoos and cleavage, but i digress.
In a school setting where the purpose is to learn about your academic ciriculmn, I don't see the point in the attire of a student, which could probably be one reason I am a fan of uniforms, it eliminates the whole "who can or should wear what".
Girls wear skirts to make their legs look pretty and mostly make them look long, what of these is a guys purpose for wearing a skirt.
Again, I say: you're experiences are limited. So, again, can you prove that there aren't men who wear skirts in the military during informal functions?
3. No. I'm talking about in school. Hence why I keep bringing up school related subjects.
But if you don't see the point in the attire, why are you okay with girls wearing skirts as part of a uniform? Does wearing skirts help girls learn better?
Also, the entire population isn't required to dress to please you. You're personal opinion on how guys look in a skirt (and girls look with tattoos) isn't relevant. To quote you: " not only is that kind of a shallow reason but also not a very convincing one."
Girls wear skirts for all kinds of reasons. Guys do to. I literally just gave you a handful of reasons why guys would want to wear skirts. And what the purpose of them would be. Making legs look long applies to guys as well. Looking nice applies to guys as well. [b]Every reason you can think of that a girl would wear a skirt applies to guys who want to wear skirts.
3. Skirts can be part of a girls uniform its only the length that is a factor. A uniform can get rid of the whole dress code problem hence my support of them. Now if you have an objection to uniforms then that is fine but my point still remains the same.
I understand that my personal opinion is not popular but non the less still my personal opinion. I am not running for an office to make my opinion a reality, I am just giving my opinion on the topic, wither you agree or not is not important. If you want to understand where my thought process comes from, that is one thing.
However the fact of the matter is that I don't think guys should wear skirts in school, it my preference and I will stand by it. Its the same as I don't think school should be a fashion show or a place to be artistically inclined, again it is preference.This question has no right or wrong answer so I just like reading other people's opinion on this.
You don't know that men don't wear skirts during informal functions. You know that the men on the military base you've been on didn't wear them. But that is in no way reflective of every military base in the world.
3. You said that you didn't see the point in the attire students wear in school, right after saying you were okay with girls wearing skirts as part of their uniform. Which is it? Are skirts okay as part of a uniform (which means it's okay for guys to wear them), or are they not (which means it's not okay for girls to wear them). Length of the skirt was never a topic (and the length is dictated by the uniform to begin with), so I'm not sure where that came from.
But, again, you have no real reason for why you don't think guys should be able to wear skirts. That's my whole issue with this, that you're trying to debate a topic without having a reason for having this position. You can not like the way someone dresses and still think they're allowed to dress that away. But, you don't think guys should be allowed to dress that way, simply because you don't like the way some guys look in skirts.
Again, I have no problem with you having an opinion. My issue is with the lack of why you have this specific one.
3."you said that you didn't see the point in the attire students wear in school, right after saying you were okay with girls wearing skirts as part of their uniform. Which is it?" ok let me clear up the confusion, when I said attire I meant anything that is not always standard in a uniform ie saggy pants, shirts that reveal cleavage, or nose piercings.
The "real" reason why is a matter of preference, which is neither right or wrong and sometimes doesn't always have a logical explanation. I don't think guys should wear skirts in school because to me its looks very feminine and I find it kinda strange. If a guy wants to wear a skirt in public its fair game, but in a school setting I don't think it is fitting for a male to wear a skirt.
Edit:^fair enough, they may be "allowed" but I don't think they "should"
3. Again, you're not answering my question. Skirts are worn in a public school, and all public schools have a length code about shorts and skirts. Students who break this code are reprimanded (which varies from school to school). So, again, either are skirts are okay, or they are not.
Again, you're not giving me a why. Why is it bad for men to be feminine? Why does you're dislike of femininity mean that guys shouldn't wear skirts?
It's true that opinions and preferences don't have logical explanations behind them. But if you don't have a logical explanation for your opinion, then why would you enter into a debate with it?
3.Okay since my bases was for school with a uniform public or private. For a public school, I suppose as long as it doens't go against a rule then I guess its ok
Why? I just find it weird is all I can't really explain how strange it is for me to see a guy in a skirt, its really strange for me.
That is a good point. I feel as though that this is a very subjective question, it really up for anyone's interpretation, with that there is no right or wrong answer so this really to is not a debate topic as much as it is an opinion about a situation or circumstance. You can't really provide good stats perhaps some psychology but not really good stats so therefore, I don't see how you can logically say yeah or nay, its really up to the person. I could be wrong but that is how I see it.
Edit:^ maybe but I can't really say yes fully, again I wish there was a "depends" option here
What... do you want stats on?
And, considering, as whiteflame pointed out, what the question is asking, you can say yea or nay.
^not really what I was looking for but ok. I was looking for something more in the lines of a "Hail and Fair well" kinda event but ok.
I'd be really cool to see a guy walking down the hall wearing a dress. Sure, it's not statistically normal, but if a guy wants to wear a certain outfit, if he's happy with it, it's perfectly normal. Besides, nothing's really NORMAL, is it?
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