when should i come out?

dont be scared, your parents are there to support te and if they dont like who te are then that's really sad. and i understand why your keeping it from your dad, but maybe your mom will understand better. this is not my choice but what (btw im bi 2) i did was just tell my mom and asked her to tell my dad in the best way she could. odds are he will be proud that te decided to let him no even though your mom told him. but if u dont want to do this let me no in a letter o bacheca post and i will give te any più consigli i can think of cuz i really hate it when people are stuck in situations like this! so here is my profilo link and get back to me if te can www.fanpop.com/fans/mollymayjr

at 14 i don't think that te can actually be sure of your sexuality, i think that every teenager feels confusion about their sexuality at some point, later in life te may find yourself only attracted to one gender

at 14 te shouldn't be in such a rush to label yourself but if te feel that te are absolutley certain then the only answer i can give to your domanda is whenever te feel comfortable enough to "come out"

te should come out when the time feels right. Don't try to rush it; just do it if and when you're "feeling it".

I happen to know for a fact that my parents would be supportive because I asked them if they would be okay if I were gay, bi, etc. Try bringing it up casually in a conversation with your dad first and get his reaction. If he is strongly against homo/bisexuality, te may not want to come out yet. Parents have kicked their son/daughter out of the house for being gay o bi. te may want to take that into consideration first.