why are guys so mean to girls

my exboyfriend is always mean to me
 why are guys so mean to girls
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and why are te so sexist?
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when think uh like somebone maybe just ba crush and ubthortbit
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and uu thortit was goung be reall thing
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Emma01 said:
I heard its because they like you.

They just cant express it.

*From personal experience and observations*

Its like little kids; when kids are small the only way to express they like te is da having him pull her hair.

^^

Its called cute flirting.
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 I heard its because they like you. They just cant express it. *From personal experience and observations* Its like little kids; when kids are small the only way to express they like te is da having him pull her hair. ^^ Its called cute flirting.
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I agree with Emma01 100% :P
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LabraLege said:
Yes yes, they suck! This is normal, he is your ex. But aren't girls being mean to boys all the time? Sometimes I feel disguse for us, actually. We are più selfish than we think. Let's stop being only victims! Some of us are mean to every boy we don't like. It makes us double!
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Yeah it's totally true. We can be complete bitches to guys and still call ourselves the victims. I totally agree with you.
mercifulgirl666 posted più di un anno fa
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yea we can be so mean, to be honest thats why most of my Friends are guys
skytail127 posted più di un anno fa
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that is very true.personal experience
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sweeneytodd9999 said:
Boys who are mean to girls are mean to everyone, and those guys are usually the ugliest ones, who want the others to feel bad and inferior to them. When they discover something "wrong" o just different with that person (like a problem, a crush, a too tall o a too small person, a girl wearing a bit of make-up...)they start being mean and just don't stop! It's awful, I know, but te just have to ignore it. If your ex boyfriend is being mean to te ignore it. If he goes too far and te just can't take it anymore, te smash him on the face o in the dick (it hurts so much that he will definitly stop).
And my ex was being mean to me too. Don't know why, but who understands boys? I wish I could.
I kept ignoring him and now he apologized. but it won't be the same anymore, that's guaranteed.
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True, They be mean to me for some of the reasons :'( (Well NOT most of the boys (; )
poddo posted più di un anno fa
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ya usualy a bully is just a bully, he's not worth your attention
skytail127 posted più di un anno fa
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need look at bthereb selevesv some blive their bselves why dont vthey have a cuore n stop liying
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Sephisis17 said:
ciao people! I'm a guy, and I'd just like to speak for myself here. I'm not mean to girls. Never were and I'll probably never be. For one simple reason: they're the opposite sex, which means we guys are attracted to girls da nature. And I have to say that most of them are reeeeeaaallly cute. I know that te mean guys in general, but some of us are different. Some of us are kind and gentle to you, including me =D. P.S. That was pretty lame but still :P
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Thats so True
RanmaRaj posted più di un anno fa
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haha true true not all dudes are the same
latinlover posted più di un anno fa
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agreed, there are as many mean girls as there are boys, if not più
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Rupa said:
accordin to me guys just r using girls these days....its lyk when ever u need them u go to them
n at other times "i dunno who she is"....be really careful coz its happened 2 me too
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Laurencia7 said:
Because they suck! LOL
It depends on the relationship, try talking if that doesn't work...cut him loose, te don't need that.
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nxtactress said:
Some guys r just jerks! They think they're 'soo cool' and try 2 impress their friends. Some guys don't know how 2 act around a girl they like. And some guys r just doing what guys do, being guys. Only 2 of my ex-boyfriends talk 2 me, the one who dumped me, and the other one who I dumped. The one who dumped me I hate his guts soo much, I can't believe I dated him in the first place; he's selfish, immature, irresponsible, spoiled rotten, and a stupid moron.
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ditto... why do girls like us end up falling for such douche bags? XD
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daddiesgirl said:
The reason your ex-boyfriend is so mean to te is because he jealous of who ever has stolen your heart. Its not that guys are jerks because not all are its just that he thinks that da being an jerk he can win te back. Just tell him he needs to stop because it just makes him seem like a child. He needs to face the facts that you've moved on.
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Deans_Girl said:
okay did te dump him? if te did he probs still has feelings for you, but just and is hurt that te dumped him, his actions are out of frustration with himself not you.

if he dumped te he probs regrets his decision and and want te back, guys heads can be twisted he doesn't understand that being mean inst the way.

either way ignore him and take time to see how he reacts when your around other guys. situations with ex's can be messy and are best left alone.
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summerlynn1978 said:
Its because he is mad at te for breaking up with him so hes trying to et u back.
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Lizzy-ILoveJB said:
It's cuz they like u and r 2 'embarressed' 2 express it cuz he thinks his Friends will make fun of him! (HAPPENS 2 ME 2!!)
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RanmaRaj said:
Well I am a guy and can assure te that all guys are NOT mean.
Also the guys that are mean to gals are mean to everyone.
Believe me this is First Hand Information.
('.')
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i think every guy can be mean ... well not mean but they mostra off sometimes being rude with a girl ... usually the one they like .. WHY? they suckk! aagh haha im a cuore broken right noow ... so i hatee guys haha lol
fegzii posted più di un anno fa
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Well maybe te are right. But I still think that all guys are not mean. I felt that I was mean to a girl yesterday but it was in reality due to her mild meanness
RanmaRaj posted più di un anno fa
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te know what fegzii girls tend to be meaner than guys, also, they may be playing with you, not understanding that te dont find it funny too! stop being so dramatic and learn to take a joke!!!
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kristinrocks said:
boys are too immature they never call theyer always trying to mostra off but that is normal
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LinaJC said:
most of the time guys, like in my school, don't think it's not cool to be all friendly to girls so i think that's why they are mean. just to act cool in front of their friends. sucks, right?
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I would understand why your ex would be mean, it could mean that he's either still in Amore with te o he feels sorry for dumping te and acts mean to help te get over him quicker. Well, if he was nice it'd be like that, but some guys just are mean like that. Some guys might've just been raised up being mean to girls.
jariahvue posted più di un anno fa
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i don't completely think that. even some guys who are mean to girls, sometimes they mostra mercy and is nice to girls. and why would their parents raise them to be mean girls?????? seriously!
LinaJC posted più di un anno fa
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it's not always them being mean, it may be te being dramatic!!!
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Frances_17 said:
They think that women will think they are good guys all big and bad so they will like them,but we girls don't like that. We like the sweet guys taht Amore you. Not the assholes that treat us like shit.
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agree sweet not shit Amore is the things we want not beeing treated like shit
e2mma2weasle3 posted più di un anno fa
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Yeah they think we are Idiots ( temper rising) * evil smile*
anime_lover posted più di un anno fa
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ya but the problem with that is guys can use that sweetness, and make u fall for them and it sucks cuz its wen u get in a serious relation ship u realize what dick they r
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penelope001 said:
your Ex, oviously wants te back!! (provoking) so, its his indirect unovious way of communicating it.. (annoying). but its cute.., not really..
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dsgirl said:
It could mean they like te o they just want to push your buttons. 'cause there was this guy who was always mean to me but he never liked me he just wanted to because it was fun to him. :(. & I don't like him.
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angel-of-power said:
some say a boy makes fun of a girl cause they like her...i think boys think there tough and can push girls around but not all boys r like that
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mhm... Not all boys but many
anime_lover posted più di un anno fa
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usually the "when a boy makes fun of a girl it mean he likes her" only lasts untill grade 5
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123maddie said:
Most people say boys abuse girls because they Amore them. Sounds stupid, right? Its 100% true. So it means your ex boyfriends still has feeling for you.......
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well not becuz they luv them, its hard to explain, they do luv u but they do it cuz its like a controling thing, they dont want u to leave them, so they feel the need to harm u so u'll stay, somthing like that anyways
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Lunzzy1 said:
have te ever heared the saying that when boys are mean to girls that means they like them but it could be wrong boys could be mean to girls because they dont know how to let out how they feel because are suppose to be strong but they just dont know how to say i Amore te and they hide that from people and they have this ego that says to just be mean dont tell how te feel because of what others might think of him leting out his feelings to a girl.Hope I help :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!
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 have te ever heared the saying that when boys are mean to girls that means they like them but it could be wrong boys could be mean to girls because they dont know how to let out how they feel because are suppose to be strong but they just dont know how to say i Amore te and they hide that from people and they have this ego that says to just be mean dont tell how te feel because of what others might think of him leting out his feelings to a girl.Hope I help :) :( ;) Lunzzy1!!!!!
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whitelight1412 said:
Not all guys are mean. te just happen to fall for the wrong guys.
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Abilei said:
I think it goes with the "they broke my heart" thing.

If a guy is mean to te during your preteen years there's a chance he likes you. If he's nice to te during your highschool years there's a chance he likes you. But guys mature later in life so guys that are mean mean to te even into your highschool years could still have a crush on you.

(I hope that made sence and helped.)
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Black_cat_ said:
well ex's r usually mean coz of how its ended with u. but otherwise i dont know, im as nice as i can b with girls, not for any purpose ,just to be Friends ^_^
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kwnstantina13 said:
casuse they are a******* all they care about is theirselves they are hurting us and they dont care
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ciao not all guys are like that, i agree for the majority but not all are arseholes . i do my best to try and make my Friends feel as gd as they can and i always try and b as selfless as possible, i dont like attention but like giveing. so keep an open mind coz some guys are the idiots that most people know hun
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felicity1111 said:
i dont know but they always either take advantage of us o are really mean to us. if ur a guy nock it off!
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jeydonfan101 said:
I thought it was because they like u but I could be misken but we can also be mean to them to so we arent the only vics in the siution
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E-rock said:
Yeah its yer ex.
Not EVERY guy is.

Am not. [:
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hey, um im in the process of making a website its going to be called WhatsMilenaSayinNow? anyone is welcome there. If te have any guy trouble, family problems. ANYTHING! im there for you. whatever te tell me stays between te and I no one will know. Im a great girl that would Amore to give te advice. please help me make this website a success! thanks. <3milena.
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miyaismykitty said:
not all guys are mean, it just seems like that cuz(no afense to guys) there usually not as mature as girls, it takes them longer to mature, but it is true that there r bad guys who r out there, it usaully is because they were raised in bad surrondings, i personaly think that u shud brake up with a boy once he gets controllin, cuz that can lead to a bunch of things
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dearjohnlOv3r23 said:
hey, um im in the process of making a website its going to be called WhatsMilenaSayinNow? anyone is welcome there. If te have any guy trouble, family problems. ANYTHING! im there for you. whatever te tell me stays between te and I no one will know. Im a great girl that would Amore to give te advice. please help me make this website a success! thanks. <3milena.
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sam_642 said:
Most boys and guys are like that!!
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ljsb said:
Some people think is beause they like u......but i don't really know

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 Some people think is beause they like u......but i don't really know
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Miranda-Cullen said:
o well i think they r mean cause they like te i mean i guess it prob depends on the age te are cause middle skool guys use to b mean to the girls they liked yet i thnk as we get older guys find diff ways of telling a girl they like them
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ellie_bellie135 said:
They're not. Only dicks, ex-boyfriends, and guys who like you. Course there will always be people who flat out don't like you. But it's possible your ex is just at his anger stage of grief and just hasn't healed properly. o flat out does,t like you. te can never tell. Rrrrr -.-
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jeftelover said:
that happend to me.i broke up with my
ex and now hes alwase yelling at me and saying
i hate you!lol...
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borg3 said:
I can tell u
we re flirting with u girls and that's why we re doin it ;D
We re doin it because we like u girlz
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iloveBTR said:
they either like te o are jealous of you. i personally don't see what they have to be jealous of; we're the ones that go through pain and agony, giving birth to their children while they just have a fun time getting into our pants
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autumnstander said:
when someone is mean to u that means they have feelings for u still
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 when someone is mean to u that means they have feelings for u still
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cuddly-pandas said:
Not all guys suck. Some are really sweet. But
sometimes when a boy is mean to a girl, it's
because they like them. They try to get attention
from the girl even if it is negative.
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shadrack said:
There are many resons i'll just quot a few
[1.]sometimes a guy wants to inpress the girl he is with so much that he puts his wants aside for te he may send te little hints like my buddy went to see so and so in concerto last week i think that is so cool he mite say, if this sounds fimillyer then he is looking for your input not 2 say this is every guy and this depends on both the guy and o what kind of relisnship te have with eachother but some of us guys have seen abuse towards women and don't want to be that guy so we try hard to inpress and leave ourself out,
[2]It mite not concern te at all maybe he is going trough a tuff time, this is not a excuss at all what i am saying is that thourghout history a man is showed and o told what makes him a man and the one i have a hard time with as a man we to be strong for a women when somthing is bothering me, it,s like if i talk to the oppisit sex then i may not look the part of a strong and smooth super hero type anymore,and the same is to talk to my buddy about it, so where do i go mom o dad maybe i want to inpress them too most likly i just think it out in my own little head untill i have a solution and thean i'll shear what was going on at that point.
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lolipop120 said:
hu...i think that his way of loving u o mostrare that he is storng and mostrare that he loves u im not good giveing advies
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 hu...i think that his way of loving u o mostrare that he is storng and mostrare that he loves u im not good giveing advies
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jbeatty5336 said:
As I was told da an "ex" (the dumper)..."I'm trying to forget you". Nice! This was from someone who made me promise to be a friend forever. I tried to be a friend and catch up on news but he verbally attacked me and patronized me. I'll never speak to him again.
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xenriquegrl said:
Cuz, they like you. They might deny this but guys have this strange way of expressing their feelings. Some of them is because they really like to mostra off. But no matter how mean an ex is with you, just know that it's so not your fault.
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iliveingallifey said:
guys r to stuped to mostra there feeling o they r scard to be rejected
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RnBStar13 said:
Because they are arseholes!
Kick him in the balls!!!!!!!!!
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dxcfan said:
Because boys don't know anything, especially when they see a girl they like. Boys are their meanest when they see a girl that is pretty, and it's also because of their egos. All boys have egos, some bigger than others. Sometimes egos can make boys be jerks to girls, even to ones they like.

Some boys are just mean because their jerks.
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kairi13050 said:
the guys that are mean to girls are either just mean o douche bags. but te all act like all guys are mean. te people are disgusting. not all guys are that mean. i've never met a guy that is that bad ... except this one kid ... but he's crazy ... O_o

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141516 said:
some are butts some r not
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larrah111 said:
Not all guys are mean... someguys are mean I've had guys be really means to me but most guys are really nice. I would assume that if they're mean that they either hate te o Really like te and don't know how to mostra it :)
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shivers-zimmy said:
I wouldn't say all boys.

I think your ex is being mean to te because he either still likes you, o he misses the times te guys spent together-and trust me theres a big difference. But the guy is trying to cover it up so he's recitazione like a complete jerk-off in hopes that no one will see through his game. Lucky for you, I do.

Trust me on this though, just ignore him.
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writer67 said:
some guys find it hard to talk of how they feel when they hurt, and its easier to say the words to hurt another, and to mostra feelings isnt a sign of a good guy, got to be tough strong and macho, dont have to talk much. but most guys when they get older and have daughters we realise, how we were, and there is no way that is going to happen to our daughters. and for a guy to let his gf now of himself, can lead to betrayal at times of parture. samson and delilah. blame is easier than acepting the responsibility of acceptance of the wrong. its easier to say its your fault, SOME will say they are wrong and makeups can begin to mend two broken hearts, to either become freinds o partners o to part as mature persons to go their seperate ways.;-]
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Saku15 said:
The guys've a very evil and mean side, but usually they're very kind.
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hellokittykat93 said:
maybe they are just jealous of te have te moved on that could b why
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monkeyrockla said:
Well sum arnt meen. But sum are complete culo HOLES! not all but sum. But why. Cuz they have no other idea how to act
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mhz_johnson said:
Because they are jerks some times
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dramaqueen189 said:
THERE MEANISS IS JUST ANOTHER WAY OF SAY I LIKE o I STILL LIKE YOU

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someone_save_me said:
Not all of them are, ugh. T_T
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carebear16 said:
its because they like te sometimes o they just really hate you. My ex boyfriend and i fight all the time and sometimes out of know where he tells me he loves me. So I know he is being mean because he likes me still even tho he has a gf and he cheated on her with me like 5 times he doesnt break up with her because I say know every time he asks me out becuase I know he will break up with me and run back to his ex
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kaitgirl7676 said:
Well that really sucks. Not all guys are like that, though I've met più than my fair share of abusive men. Don't generalissimo all men into that because it will affect your mindst and offend others as well.
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violetpinkgirl said:
try to ignore him the best te can i just broke up with this boy and a mese later he asks me out again and I detto yes just an ora fa we were just about to hang up and he detto bye,love te and I detto Amore te too but was it an epic fail to forgive him?

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Rachael-111 said:
Ok u r sexist and girls r not mean to guys and guys r not mean to girls.

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Sapin said:
Well if It's your Ex then No wonder he's mean to you.
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CCSunshine said:
Let me put it too te this way...

Some guys are stupid womanizers that have no regard for feelings other than his.They cheat. They're rude. They'll break your heart.

But most guys will Amore te più than they could ever Amore anyone else. They'll hug you. They'll baciare you. But te must know that they'll also break your cuore if youre not careful.
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wanae12 said:
Haha my ex was just f*cking harassing me a secondo ago. But my current boyfriend is not mean so te might wanna add that some in there
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phangs said:
first,your ex has been hurt.in any relationship,when te break up,you both get hurt.it dosnt matter who broke up with who,or why they did it.you both got hurt.second,if all guys are mean to you,listen to whan im about to say...look for others.not all guys are the same.do te hang with the punks?go talk with the poets.do te hang out with the pallacanestro, basket team?go hang with the swim team.you just have to change your MO.
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joisyhearts said:
it depends... i mean, some guys are mean to girls because they genuinely hate them and when te don't like someone, te tend to be mean to them. but sometimes, guys are mean to girls b/c they secretly like them, but they don't know how to express it.
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charmquiana6 said:
some guys are mean to te because they like te they can say it in your face they mostra te da being mean to te and getting their Friends to hit te a something o doing something crazy once a boy liked me and all he did was be mean to me so after he told his friend that he like me and his friend told me and now i knew that he liked me

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swiftfan1 said:
ciao one of my Friends told me that a guy hurts te o is mean to u just cause he loves te a lot :p

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Cpu64 said:
Guys all start out nice, then after enough girls them like they're worthless, they start treating girls back the same way.
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123456lo said:
Ciz. These. Guys bthink they are. Better bthan u. And. Like tonlie bfir the vsakenif it,fuckingbidiots. need. Their heads. Sirting out, got bsumic not. Right bwith them, brains. Dont buse. Them,just think of. There. Sekves and how. To hurt glasses and. Girls. For no reason, un natural me culo and. We are not. Ugly look at ur. Self and ur. Inner self and stop being so so. Nasty. To woman, they. Hate. Woman fir no reason maybe. Gay. ,, asshole. Characture. And. Piss takers
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