I Amore him, but my best friend loves him too.

Me and my bff started to like him about the same time. This guy detto he likes a girl, but he is too afraid to tell her. My bff thinks he was talking about me... and I promised her I'll never ever be with him, because I care più about her than any boy. She started to deny too that she feels anything about him anymore. But I know she still likes him.
Anyways, I don't know what's happened after that, because she started to act strange with me, like I was her enemy rather than her bff she's had for 9 years! We still talk, but... it's not the same. I wish I've never told her I like him! I never thought she would react this way.
What can I do? I want my best friend back. I know I can't have her and the boy I like at the same time, I am trying to ignore how I'm feeling about him, but she doesn't seem to get it. I want her back.
Please say what te think about this.
Thank you.
 Glow posted più di un anno fa
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Amberla said:
DRAMA ALERT!!!

Well I've never really been in your situation but honestly, she's jealous of te because te both think it's te he was talking about. But neither of te really knows so te two should really get distances from this... Confront the boy, ask him in person... Just you, your bff and him only. The truth shall be known cause that's really the only way for te to know what to do!!

If he then says your bff is the one he likes, it's totally trouble and I believe it would be heartbreaking for te for sure. Though if it's you, te have to choose. Him o your bff! It may never be the complete same again between the two of te but it really is the only way, I'm sorry... BUT! If it's a whole other third girl, your problem will be solved, no big deal. Neither of te could have him then and before him everything was good I guess so...

Good luck! ;)
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thank te very much, I think we're going to tell him very soon and see what he thinks about the.. whole situation. thanks again <3
Glow posted più di un anno fa
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hey. just wanted to tell te that the problem's solved. i've just found out he likes us both. me and my bff decided he is not worth our feelings. thanks again and have a great day!
Glow posted più di un anno fa
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You're totally welcome :) It's great news! Cause now te two can finally sposta on ;D
Amberla posted più di un anno fa
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te have a great giorno too :)
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someone9999 said:
hey. look im in the sme position as your bestfriend. did she liked him first? because if dhe did, hurts her the most that she feels ike te don't Amore her enough that te can like the same boy as her. and maybe she pushed te away. my bestfriend is writting him i Amore te in front of him and i know that not couse she want to hurt me, but because they like eachother. and yes it hurt so much i tell her that it's ok but it' not i just on't know how to tell her. and te know what hurts the most? before her, he was writting me im pretty and those things and now her. like he was just making fun of me. yeah, well i keep tlling her its ok but it hurts as hell and she keeps telling him that and then she says im sorry i feel so guilty. im sorry i just wrote yu this but i have to tell someone..:)
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