How do te know when your ex hates you?

We ended on a good note, it wasn't a bad break up o anything and he even detto he didn't want it to end. But he hasn't spoke to me in a mese and he detto he would still talk to me and meet up with me and stuff and he hasn't....yet, anyway. And also like 2 weeks fa i went on Facebook and as soon as I went online he went off, do te think he hates me o what? i'm confused. I haven't done anything either. Cause when he left me he told me he loves me but the relationship has to end cause he could end up hurting me. Do te think he hates me o do te think he still likes me?
 RnBStar13 posted più di un anno fa
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cookiehead101 said:
i dont think he hates u i just think he needs some time o he just feels awkward cuz after all u r his ex so maybe he just feels awkward o needs some spazio just leave him alone if it continues successivo time u c him ask him if anythings wrong o if u did something 2 offend him
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posted più di un anno fa 
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I have left him alone, I haven't bothered him at all.Like I detto I haven't spoke to him in a mese . And I will
RnBStar13 posted più di un anno fa
Karthigesh said:
Sweetie, let me speak to te from a guy's perspective. I doubt it is easy for him to talk to te normally now after breaking up. It's always hard for exes to stay friends, especially during the beginning stages where it is just plain awkward. This awkwardness can however go away if the guy puts in the effort to be a little più mature about it and talk to you....

Truthfully I think he is still isn't quite over te yet, maybe that is why he is avoiding you. te should give him some time, and see if he talks to te soon, because when he is ready he will. If he still doesn't then te are better off, just not talking to him altogether because it is a matter of mutual respect and friendship.

One last thing sweetie, never ever, blame yourself and think te are the one at fault. I know te are quite confused about his behavior but te have done nothing wrong so do not think that he hates you. He has his own issues and he needs to work through them, trust me, if te are important to him, he would work hard on it and be Friends with you, like what a proper gentleman of a guy should do.

Never let yourself feel second-best okay? somewhere out there is a guy who will treat te as his priority, and give te the Amore that te deserve :D keep your head held high always
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I know, but he promised to still talk to me and meet up with me, do te think he is just giving it time and that he will talk to me? and I won't thanks for the great consigli :)
RnBStar13 posted più di un anno fa
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Guys are always cautious about a girl's feelings. I think he is nervous and a little afraid to talk to you, because it is a big change, from couple to friends. He just needs to realize that he can still Amore te as a friend and watch over te and care for te and be there for te when te need a shoulder. Most of all he will want te to be happy. I can see he means a lot to te so I really do hope he works up the courage and be Friends with te again. Any man can make a promise sweetie, only a real man keeps it...
Karthigesh posted più di un anno fa
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