I'm kinda afraid of kissing... :(

ciao guys,
I'm nearly 18 and I've got a boyfriend of the same age since 6th November this anno but I don't dare baciare him :( He has already kissed me 2 times and it wasn't bad but I think I'm too shy to baciare him. Perhaps I have to say that we're both più shy and he's my first real bf and I think he's also not that experienced but I'm always afraid of doing something wrong o to blame me. Especially because I feel like it's really embarrassing that a nearly 18-years old girl is afraid of baciare her boyfriend. What do te think of it and do te have some tips for me? :) (sorry for the bad English but I'm German so please have sympathy for it :) )
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How about hugging and holding hands? Are te okay with doing that?
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brokenheart24 said:
well if te really do Amore him deep down u should ask him if te can baciare him,every baciare snt perfect
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Animetama said:
Maybe te aren't ready for a real boyfriend. It could explain your phobia of kisses. Either that or...

...Maybe te only think of him as a friend deep down, but are happy to go out with him only because te actually have a boyfriend. Think about this carefully, and don't forget that this feeling is perfectly normal.

Otherwise, I'd (I know this sounds tacky) practice in the mirror and think of it as an expierence of your life time. ;)

If the last option doesn't work, and te slightly feel as if it's gross, then option two may be the case.
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Yes I really Amore him and I'm always happy when I see him and when we're together my hands sweat and everything like this :) and it's not the problem of baciare HIM but baciare in general :) okay it sounds like there are other boys in my life but of course it's not like that :) I think I just have overcome my inclinations because I WANT to baciare him...
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sehdt said:
te certainly should not feel embarrassed. Until earlier this anno it had been years since I had kissed a man in that sort of way but then I found myself in that situation and I sort of thought I had forgotten how so for the first few times he took the lead so letting him baciare te is fine. However successivo time te baciare try leaning gently into it so te feel slightly più pressure between your lips and his. te also need to feel relaxed when te baciare otherwise it won't work. Don't worry though the first few times te baciare anyone te have not kissed before it feels odd but once te get into it te will be fine I promise you. trust me I am 36 and have been there and done it più than once.
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okay thank te so much..that was really helpful :)
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dexisawesome said:
I'm afraid too. :T
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There is nothing to be scared. Try baciare the back of your hand to practice but remember to close your eyes and pretend its him. Also if te have not already may be te need to tell him so he knows. Not everyone likes o is any good at baciare but there is no need to be scared its a very natural thing to do.
sehdt posted più di un anno fa
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A nice baciare makes me very happy and usually sets me up for a good rest of the giorno
sehdt posted più di un anno fa
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-.- Boy...I'm a boy.... Why does everyone think I'm a girl? Derp.
dexisawesome posted più di un anno fa
sshannahmontana said:
So u should forget the phobia of baciare him and suprise him with stroke in the cheek o air kisses.So u should get the real baciare da making yourself a way.
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