What does all this mean?

There's this guy I've really liked since the start of the school year, but up until two and a half weeks ago, he had a girlfriend (she and I were Friends as kids, but popularity got in the way in middle school). It's not clear who broke up with whom, but I think he broke up with her. She's telling everybody that she dumped him and he's "so heartbroken", but she also clings to him, flirts with him, and he doesn't do it back. If anything, he's annoyed with her (yay!) However, he hasn't changed his FB status. Hers no longer says in a relationship, but his does. Of course, her name isn't attached anymore. It's possible that he just hasn't gotten to it (he hardly goes on, and when he does, it's not for long), but he has been on at least once since then. For months before the breakup, I debated if he liked me back, even a little. He looks at me all the time, always has his body pointed towards me, brushes me intentionally as we pass each other, blushes occasionally, etc. Before the breakup, he'd always look away when I caught him staring o refuse to hold my gaze when he caught me. Since then, though, we've held eye-contact for 5+ secondi multiple times, and everything I mentioned above escalated. There are still times he looks away, but he's letting me catch him più and more. A couple times at lunch, he'll be sitting with his friends, and as I pass, he'll turn his whole upper body towards me, making it clear he's looking. Also, he didn't accept my FB friend request until two days before the breakup. It pended for months. His ex is jealous and glared at me (still does) all the time when they were together. Maybe it wasn't a coincidence? Still, he hasn't made a sposta at all yet. I get that he just got out of a breakup, but wouldn't something have happened da now? Here's a downer. When we make the 5-10 secondo eye contact, I always smile a little. He usually doesn't. Maybe it's just his way of reacting. He is pretty stoic. I don't know. All these good signs, then that bad one
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We don't talk much. I'll admit that. We have AP bio together (he's a senior, I'm a junior da the way), and we've talked about homework, college, and science together, but that's it. No deep conversations, but then again, we've never gotten the chance to be alone. Ideas for how I can get him alone, even if just for a short meaningless conversation not related to school? Today was different that everything I just described, though. In class, he didn't look at me til towards the end of the hour. The few times he did, it was always when he thought I wasn't looking, and they eye-contact never lasted. He casually looked away. That'd make sense if he was still with her (not wanting people to know he likes me), but he's single. Why all of a sudden hiding it? Unless it meant something entirely different. At lunch, while I was in line, he and his Friends were looking at me constantly, talking. That'd be good and all, but why was he recitazione weird in bio then? I have one big concern. Couple days ago, I did a vague tweet about him (left out his name) like a lot of girls do about guys, not thinking anything of it. Maybe he saw it and is uncomfortable. He doesn't follow me, but maybe someone that does showed him. How likely is that? From everything that I've said, does it sound like he likes me o not? What's going on? I'm so confused.
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Today was kind of a continuation of Thurs (didn't go to school Fri cuz of field trip). He didn't look at me when he knew I was paying attention, but I did catch him briefly a couple times when he thought I wasn't looking. He didn't brush against me as we passed. He wasn't even pointed towards me in class like he always used to be. At lunch, I think he and his Friends were talking about me, but I'm not sure. Something has clearly happened. Something's changed, and IDK what.
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faiyah226 said:
Its mostly possible that he does like you, but he just needs some spazio from the breakup first. And the other thing is that maybe he's too shy to reveal his feelings to you.
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