Scared of falling in Amore

There is this guy I really like, and for a lot of reasons I'm almost certain that he likes me too, the problem is that I'm sacred of falling in love, other times that I've been in similar situations I panic and do things so I won't fall in Amore o take the relationship to something più serius, I don't want to do that this time :p, any advice?
 luinwen posted più di un anno fa
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Eline_K said:
I know it's scary to fall in love, because that puts te in a very vulnerable position. I've had the same problem myself.

I had this 'thing' with a guy, but I was afraid to make it più serious, so I ended it. Later he found himself a girl who wasn't afraid to be più serious, and they're a couple now. I now really regret my decision. After I turned him down I realized how great he was. He was the first guy I liked who made me feel like I could really be myself with. Probably because we were Friends first.

Now I truly regret letting him go. If he ever breaks up with her, I can only hope he still likes me. Surely then I won't make the same mistake again.

My consigli to te is this: Take things slow, but don't run away. If te feel like he's moving to fast, o getting to close: tell him! Don't turn your back on him just because te might get hurt. Sometimes te have to take some risks to get what te really want. And even if te don't get what te wanted in the end, at least you've tried! That's life! Be honest with yourself and with him.

Most importantly: Remember this:

te might regret what te let slip away.

Good luck, and let me know what happens!
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WOW, ur good!
heartmerlin2 posted più di un anno fa
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Thanks!
Eline_K posted più di un anno fa
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thanks ^^ I'll keep it in mind
luinwen posted più di un anno fa
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You're welcome! Good luck!
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heartmerlin2 said:
Umm, tricky!

U could do many things! U could stay away from him and try and not get into him more. o try and get to know him slowly, this could meen u could feel più at ease with him o start to feel he's not right for u! Also, if u do fall for each other, te could feel comftable asking him to take it slow and not make it serious untill ur ready.

Just ask yourself why te don't want to get into a relationship? Chances r that it won't become serious for a long time if u do go out, expecially if u take things slow.

Try not to worry to much and stay in your comfort zone, that way te wont feel stressed. Just focus ur attention on other things like friends, and leave Amore to work it out itself!

I havn't been in a relationship so c if any other advise comes up!
Good luck!
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thanks also to te ^^
luinwen posted più di un anno fa
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No prob
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