In desperete need of help.

a freind of mine decided she was gonna leave fanpop forever and I felt like I loved her then I started listening to the song in the video. and so I told her I loved her...and she asked me what kind of Amore and I told her as a lover. and she has had her cuore broken many times, and shes willing to give Amore another chance because of me. and I think I Amore her as a freind not a lover but its too late now. I dont want to break her cuore and she detto if it doesnt work out for us she will never Amore again......
 GingerStar posted più di un anno fa
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Jamie86 said:
I can see why te might be a little desperate. Confusing feelings always make things look a lot harder. Are te sure you're not in Amore with her? I think te just thought that was it, because te were afraid of losing her as a friend and te wanted to mostra her that te care about her. It's obvious that she has some issues herself. She has no faith in love, but wants to be loved very badly. What won't help her is faking feelings towards her. Neither one of te will get any happier da that. te shouldn't feel like her well-being is your sole responsibility and you're not allowed to be confused da feelings yourself. te shouldn't feel bad because te told her te loved her as a lover when te don't, because te didn't say it to make her feel bad.

What I think te should do, is explain everything to her. Tell her what te went through te when she detto she'd quit fanpop forever. Tell her how bad so felt when te realised you're not in Amore with her and how afraid te were when te thought about dissappointing her. Tell her te want the best for her. mostra her that she shouldn't have so less faith in love, because she is loved da te (as a friend) and that te are there for her to help her with her Amore life. Amore between Friends (especially at your age) can be so much longer-lasting and unconditionally than a fleeting passion between lovers... The fact that te felt the need to ask people for help with this shows that te care deeply for her and her well-being. So give her what te can give her, namely a great friendship, support and the feeling of being loved da a friend.

It will be up to her from that point. If she accepts this and is happy with what te can give her, she is più than worth your energy.
If she doesn't, her problems are deeper than what te can handle. Tell her that you'll be there for her when she changes her mind, but don't let her problems become yours. te were willing to make yourself completely vulnerable da telling exactly how te feel, and if she doesn't see o appreciate that, she's not worth your friendship.

Good luck!
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stephmfan215 said:
oh dear this is tricky. go along with the whole Amore thing. if your only Friends on fanpop then im sure this Amore will slowly fade, for her too. just try to hang in there until she feels like she just loves te as a friend. I hope this works!

(ps. r u a guy o a girl?)
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posted più di un anno fa 
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yea are tasso, yew a guy o girl?
dearjohnlOv3r23 posted più di un anno fa
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she is a girl. checked her page.
brokenheart2828 posted più di un anno fa
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ok... thats interesting.....
stephmfan215 posted più di un anno fa
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