i get jealous when hes around other girls and yet i know were not going out its just hard cause im so attached to him :(

If he doesn't want a relationship you shouldn't kiss him. I think that he's just using you, probably he's interested in something like "friends with benefits", all nice things without resposibility and faithfulness. You should make straight borders between friendship and relationship.

Ask him what does he want from you. If he likes you a lot he'll say he want to be with you etc and if not I don't think it's worth it for you to wait for someone like that :)

thxx guys <3

Well if it was me I would keep things as they are and see what happens. Or ask him to explain why he said what he did. However there is nothing wrong with being friends that do the other stuff. As far as I am concerned it goes from friends to relationship the moment you sleep together and so as it is you are friends plus a bit extra. You are not alone I have a very similar situation only difference I am 37 and he is married and 55. But we are hurting no one and having a bit of fun.

I am 37 and he is married and 55. But we are hurting no one and having a bit of fun

^Of course... no one except his wife and probably children. What a selfish *****

Maybe it's as simple as he's just not ready for a relationship

You have to stop him before it's too late. Don't let him use you. And don't be idle either. Just ask him if he wants to be with you. If he said "we're just friends." or anything implicating that you're just a friend, it means that he doesn't love you. So, stop before it's too late.