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Is there something wrong with me?

MY family doesnt aprovw of my Amore for mj.they say it is an unhealthy obsession.So the other giorno i went and tried to buy the mj vision and My brother detto " No più mj stuff,you are to obsessed" That hurt and I am thinking hard on this one.I can see no wrong in mj. I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him. Is there soemthing wrong with me,because its tearing me apart,but I know that no matter what anybody sais, I cant... no i wont stop loving him
 mjrocks13 posted più di un anno fa
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lucaslover528 said:
Sweetie don't worry about it. I sometimes feel that Michael is the only one there for me too. On a lot of occasions I feel that he's the only one that listens to me, understands me.

I can see why you'd sometimes think that Michael's better for your happiness, believe me I do. I can name numerous times when I felt like saying, "I've had enough. Michael, take me with you." I can relate with te there. Michael isn't there to judge and he isn't there to disagree. Perhaps that's what makes it so simple to think that he's the only thing that keeps te going...

Try to realise that your family are always there for te in physical form. MJ's there for te in spiritual form. But your family will be da your side forever.
There's nothing wrong with you. I can see that te truly Amore him, but don't let that blind te from the people that will be there with te at the end of the day.

Hope this helps.
L.O.V.E
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posted più di un anno fa 
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God, you're like the MJ shrink! :P gr8 answer
eken posted più di un anno fa
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lol thanks! ;)
lucaslover528 posted più di un anno fa
WithAChildHeart said:
Not in the least. Many MJ fan of our generation have witnessed that, I don't exclude myself. You're perfectly fine.

The matter is that a lot changed since our parents were in our age and what we are now. When our parents were a fan of someone they really admired them. This is not the case with us anymore, because the things we fancy are a "phase" and come and go. Well, not always, of course, but most of the time, especially with younger children. E.g. an eight-year old is a fan of Hannah Montana and wants everything related to her. After a while this "obsession" fades and she starts liking someone else, this drives parents nuts.

But I do think that you're old enough to say that your Amore for Michael is everlasting. You're "just" a devoted fan and I think that it's unfair the way your family treats you. Don't be worried, though, this will loosen up very soon! (:
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posted più di un anno fa 
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thanks that really touches my cuore
mjrocks13 posted più di un anno fa
zupanic said:
Yes..you are obsessed...we all are obsessed...but I Amore my obsession:D
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posted più di un anno fa 
UmOkayThen said:
There's nothing wrong with you, you're AMAZING! My family makes fun of me for my Amore for MJ, but they let me get lots of MJ things. I don't think it's fair that te couldn't get Vision. Like I would seriously buy te one if I knew te :)
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posted più di un anno fa 
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awww i would buy u one too
mjrocks13 posted più di un anno fa
zombiestars said:
have your family ever listen, saw o know anything about michael but i'm sad 4 u and hope your family understands your Michael obession
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posted più di un anno fa 
sunsetdriver said:
Not even. You're perfectly fine. I don't consider that being obsessed,just a devoted fan.
They just don't understand what MJ means to you. Most families are like that.

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PaisleyPark said:
" I think hes better than my own family.I would die for him."

Okay, it is perfectly fine to Amore MJ...

But loving him più than your own family?!

That is not normal. I'm sorry.

te did not know him in real life. This IS an obsession.

I'm not saying this to be mean, but maybe te should talk to a psychiatrist to see why te feel this way.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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i've been to a shrink it doesnt work nothing does
mjrocks13 posted più di un anno fa
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Then that one wasn't right for you, there is più than one shrink out there. te just need to find the right one.
PaisleyPark posted più di un anno fa
AimieDawn said:
From knowing other fan of Michael, I know they have connections to him da his Musica and his love. But te do have an unhealthy obsession. I don't know how your life with your family is back home, but no matter what, te should never Amore anyone più than your family. Especially someone te never even knew personally. Michael would disapprove of this, since he loved family very much.

Trust me, I Amore Michael, I truly do. te don't have to get every single thing related to him to mostra how much te Amore him. It's about love, not obsession o material things. It comes from the heart, y'know. Listen to his music, defend him, whatever, to mostra your love.

Please get help and try spending più time with your family. I mean, read with them, ride bikes with them, have family time!

This made me sick.

And it made me feel even più sick to see how many fan are saying this is perfectly fine. I mean, so te all approve of loving someone te never even knew più than your family? Oh whatever.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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Agreed.
PaisleyPark posted più di un anno fa
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i understand but my family has never been there for me
mjrocks13 posted più di un anno fa
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And te think Michael would? I'm sorry, he was an amazing human and cared for all his fans, but te really think he would've picked a random fan to be there for?
AimieDawn posted più di un anno fa
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^ Bit harsh...
lucaslover528 posted più di un anno fa
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