do I have good reasons for hating my stepdad?
I'm just gonna give te some info about him first before actually giving te the reasons:
so my mom's been dating this guy since I was really little and we used to get along great and he and my mom dated until I was 13 when he cheated on her and they broke up for a anno and a half until finally getting back together. Afterwards he and I got along great with each other again until we went on a family trip to Cabo for a few days when I was 14. On our very last night there I walked in on him and my mom making out in letto *shudders* after that night I just started to dislike him a little. Then me not liking him just got worse and worse when I was 15 when we moved into a new house that he and my mom built. After living with him for two years, I just started to notice this stuff
1. He sometimes crosses the line when talking about personal stuff
2. When it comes to buying stuff, he buys a bunch of random stuff that just takes up room and isn't really needed, especially since we don't have a lot of money lately
3. When it comes to the welfare of our animali like our two cats, little dog, and six chickens, he doesn't really give a shit (except for the dog, since he inherited her from his mom after she died) I mean, when mom and I found out that the chickens weren't really getting fed with the feed we bought for them and mentioned to my stepdad about it, he just laughed
4. He doesn't really give a crap about anyone's feelings
5. If he and I get into a fight, I'm always the one who has to apologize even though he started the fight (and my mom and sisters know this too but they make me anyway)
6. When I get really upset o annoyed, he doesn't respect it.
so what do te guys think? Do I have a good reason for not liking my stepdad o am I just too sensitive?
BB2010 posted più di un anno fa
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