Do te guys think it's over for me now?

I just cut for the first time.

And I'm sorry I'm such a hypocrite.

I told some of te guys not to cut, not to do any harm to yourselves because I thought it was going to get better.

I'm sorry I lied.

I couldn't even save myself. Why couldn't I have minded my own business and not've tried to save te guys?

So my domanda is, will this help the pain get better?

Will cutting ruin it all in the end?
 CielXlizzy19 posted più di un anno fa
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seffro said:
I know how that feels.... I .... I cut once unu
I felt awkward, everyone looked at me funny and it made me even più depressed.....never cut your own hair :b
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I hope te know this isent something to joke about.
SeeUV3 posted più di un anno fa
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^I agree.
hetalianstella posted più di un anno fa
AmyRosefan4eva said:
It's not over... I just don't suggest doing it anymore. It's not gonna help the pain, it's just gonna make people shun te more. My first thought when I see someone scar themselves is that there are severe personal problems that are still unsolved. Find a less harmful solution to whatever your problems are.
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But it feels so good. I know it sounds twisted, but somstimes I think the blood and the faint scars loo pretty adorning my wrist like that. I just can't take it anymore. The emotional pain just HURTS more.
CielXlizzy19 posted più di un anno fa
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It may feel good, but it's still painful.
AmyRosefan4eva posted più di un anno fa
Elle-C said:
Firstly, a resource that can help much più than my words...

S.A.F.E. Alternatives website:
link

National (U.S.) Help Line:
1 800 DONTCUT

Secondly, to answer your question...

Sweetie, no, it's not over for te at all and I'm so glad that you're reaching out. Have te told a family member, friend o just someone who has real world, tangible access to te about this? I don't know you, but I'm concerned and feel so helpless right now to be of any true benefit to you. Please, if te haven't already, confide in someone (at least one someone) who can physically hold your hand and support te with all the Amore and empathy that I (and I'm sure anyone who reads your plea) would Amore to extend to you...but can't. I know it's not your intent to scare anyone, but I am scared for you. Please, please seek help and tell us that te have so we don't have to sit a world away and worry.

I wish te the best, much success and a sweet, happy life. ♥

Here's a virtual hug for you, but, I promise the real life ones are much better and closer than te might think. :o)
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 Firstly, a resource that can help much più than my words... S.A.F.E. Alternatives website: http://www.selfinjury.com/ National (U.S.) Help Line: 1 800 DONTCUT Secondly, to answer your question... Sweetie, no, it's not over for te at all and I'm so glad that you're reaching out. Have te told a family member, friend o just someone who has real world, tangible access to te about this? I don't know you, but I'm concerned and feel so helpless right now to be of any true benefit to you. Please, if te haven't already, confide in someone (at least one someone) who can physically hold your hand and support te with all the Amore and empathy that I (and I'm sure anyone who reads your plea) would Amore to extend to you...but can't. I know it's not your intent to scare anyone, but I am scared for you. Please, please seek help and tell us that te have so we don't have to sit a world away and worry. I wish te the best, much success and a sweet, happy life. ♥ Here's a virtual hug for you, but, I promise the real life ones are much better and closer than te might think. :o)
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Thank you, I almost cried Leggere this. No, I haven't told anyone ... and I don't plan too anytime soon because I don't think any of my Friends would umderstand, since I'm still in 6th grade. And teachers o family members (at least in my life) won't be there for me, they'll just scold me for being a 'rebellious teen' o whatever other label they'd wish to put on me. Sometimes it's just the fact that I'm surrounded da people who 'care', but no one to understand without judging me.
CielXlizzy19 posted più di un anno fa
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i know how te feel im in grade 8 and i wasent taken seriously till my mom found out i cut and my hair is starting to fall out and i whent from a size 5 to a size 1 and 0
SeeUV3 posted più di un anno fa
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You're most welcome, babygirl. And if you're not going to reach out to those te know; please, please reach out to those who don't. Call 1800 DONTCUT for S.A.F.E. Alternatives to self harm. Okay, love? Please don't make me worry about te needlessly...
Elle-C posted più di un anno fa
SeeUV3 said:
I cut about 10 times before it dosent help at the tim te may think it helps but in the end it just leaves a big scare of regret and pain. Try to think of something else everytime te think your about to cut. My friend micheal practicly saved me today . Maybe te should talk to one of your Friends about it that's what I did and it helped me from cutting again. Good luck and its okay your not a hypocrite te were just looking out for the well-being of others.
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Thank you. :)
CielXlizzy19 posted più di un anno fa
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Your welcome im trying my best to get better good luck with your recovery
SeeUV3 posted più di un anno fa
adultswimperson said:
te should never say it's over for te just because it was your first time doing it, te should talk about you're problems with your parents o a therapist.
Things will get better after, trust me.
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hetalianstella said:
NO.....it's definitely not over for you.
I have never cut before, but I suggest te don't continue. It may feel good but self harm won't be worth it in the end, it's not healthy and te will most likely regret it. The physical pain distracts te from the emotional pain, but then your physical health is in danger, which just puts più stress on your emotional health.

Try something più healthy. Instead of cutting yourself, try punching a pillow. o even cutting up a pillow. But please try to avoid doing that to yourself.

I recommend telling an adult, talk to a school counselor o your parents. And if te just can't do that yet, a close friend. Trust me, it will be a relief, a huge weight off your chest just to get it out to anyone close to you.
If te just want someone to talk to te about this, feel free to send me a message and i will help best I can :)

Just remember, you've been through a lot but it makes te stronger, it exceeds te higher than most people. te are a beautiful human being, and I'm sure te a very loved.
I hope the best for te <3
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mangamoo01 said:
Please, please, please don't cut yourself. I may not be fully aware of your situation, but te shouldn't be adding più suffering and pain to what te are already going through. There is a way out, don't say its over, talk to someone, anyone. Ask for help, don't give in. It really saddens me to find out someone is inflicting self harm on themselves, it is not the right way to solve your troubles.
There is someone who cares if te do this, te may not see this just yet, but don't forget that there are people who hate to hear this about you, so please think positive.
I remember a time when everything would piss me off, I helped "sooth" this da taking an object and hitting my letto with it, this may sound silly but it helps relieve stress, try something like this, but please not using your body as the object.
If te need to talk, in any way, feel free to send me an inbox, I may be pretty close to being a stranger, but believe me, I really care.
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GoldnSnitch_96 said:
look, its evident I have missed out on some stuff cause this dosent look like the first time te have posted, but all I know,is that te really should avoid cutting. it really is much better to talk about your problems, cutting yourself will be a decision te regret, and the scars will always be a permanent reminder of your decision.
if te really want to talk to someone, te can send me a message (: I will listen, and I will do my best to help you, no matter what situation te are in.
don't give in <3
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cherry_Dropzx said:
sweetie, please dont go down this road, ok, i have just recovered from doing all this, and it didnt do anything to help it made everything worse. i know i dont know your situation and i cant really help te as much as i'd like to, but im telling te know that it doesnt work, because from my personal experience, it gets worse, and i kept telling myself it didnt mean anything and then came the giorno that i almost died becuase of it, please dont put yourself in that position. i get the fact that te dont want to tell your Friends and stuff coz i didnt tell mine either, i figured they would ditch me and call the emo freak like everyone else. i know now they wouldnt ever do that but still. and yes the scars may look cool to te right nowe but te will hate them when te get older, i still have the scars and when people see them i can totally see what theyre thinking. but i accepted that a long time fa but the difference is that i know not to do this anymore....

my sweet i know te wont believe what we are telling you, te may want to, but there will be something holding te back - it was like that for me. i could never get over that thing that held me back, but i just wish that te will overcome that, coz for me i had to almost die before i saw everything clearly, i dont want te to find out that way. please dont give up. just think of all the things te could have achieved in life, all the people who Amore you, those who could have loved you....dont give up and just hold on. im not gonna lie to you, but things will be difficult, for now, but just think of everyone around you, they should be the reason te continue in life, if te cant live for yourself. my best friend killed herself, and she almost took me with her, but i held on to life because i matter to people and so do you! te MATTER, te ARE IMPORTANT. te can do so much with your life, so please just reach out and take our hands, we are here for you, te are in our hearrts and thoughts....please message me if te need to talk about this più <33333
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 sweetie, please dont go down this road, ok, i have just recovered from doing all this, and it didnt do anything to help it made everything worse. i know i dont know your situation and i cant really help te as much as i'd like to, but im telling te know that it doesnt work, because from my personal experience, it gets worse, and i kept telling myself it didnt mean anything and then came the giorno that i almost died becuase of it, please dont put yourself in that position. i get the fact that te dont want to tell your Friends and stuff coz i didnt tell mine either, i figured they would ditch me and call the emo freak like everyone else. i know now they wouldnt ever do that but still. and yes the scars may look cool to te right nowe but te will hate them when te get older, i still have the scars and when people see them i can totally see what theyre thinking. but i accepted that a long time fa but the difference is that i know not to do this anymore.... my sweet i know te wont believe what we are telling you, te may want to, but there will be something holding te back - it was like that for me. i could never get over that thing that held me back, but i just wish that te will overcome that, coz for me i had to almost die before i saw everything clearly, i dont want te to find out that way. please dont give up. just think of all the things te could have achieved in life, all the people who Amore you, those who could have loved you....dont give up and just hold on. im not gonna lie to you, but things will be difficult, for now, but just think of everyone around you, they should be the reason te continue in life, if te cant live for yourself. my best friend killed herself, and she almost took me with her, but i held on to life because i matter to people and so do you! te MATTER, te ARE IMPORTANT. te can do so much with your life, so please just reach out and take our hands, we are here for you, te are in our hearrts and thoughts....please message me if te need to talk about this più <33333
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herpinaderpson said:
I don't always say deep things, but te seem to be in a serious situation.
Nothing's over until te decide to completely give up.
I know this, because I've cut too. I was in great depression and felt completely hopeless. To be honest, I liked it at first. The slight pain caused da the blade felt like an escape from reality. Yes, I actually felt like that.
Soon, my Friends started asking how I got the scars on my wrist. I couldn't tell them; because if I did, somebody else would sure learn it and tell it to the counselor, and the counselor would call my parents, and lots of crap followed da it. Instead, I kept it as a secret.
I had to stop, because the scars would itch all the time and that drove me crazy.
I realized that I didn't have to give a shit what other people thought. Not even my parents. That's how I decided to stop cutting.

Cutting seems to be a good escape from pain. In fact, it actually is an escape, but only for the first time. After a while it might become an addiction and that might lead to death da blood loss. I advise not cutting deep.

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snakemanfan said:
The pain never gets better, I haven't cut my self but I'm quite a dark person under my bubbly attitude .... Pain never gets better only worse ....
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 The pain never gets better, I haven't cut my self but I'm quite a dark person under my bubbly attitude .... Pain never gets better only worse ....
posted più di un anno fa 
johnlemon said:
NOT AT ALL! I've never cut myself before, but I know depression. It really doesn't feel like it'll get better, but I assure you, it does. It's never to late o over until it's irreversible. Meaning you're gone. But as long as you're still alive, te should keep fighting. Please get professional help! They won't see te as a "rebellious teenager" o whatever te fear, it'll be taken seriously and whoever it is will want to help you. Good luck and stay strong.
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