How do i braek up with a guy without hurtting him?

Well this really cute boy at school asked me out. Now its been 2 months and the relation ship has gone NO WEAR but i dont want to hurt him at all! HELP!!!!!
 jacobblack45 posted più di un anno fa
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lilacool said:
Dear jacobblack45,
u cant break up with somone without hurting them but u can break up with them without hurting them MUCH.
so heres wat u shouldn't say:
We'll still be friends.
See u around.
We could stay in touch,hey lemme call u later!(this is good sometimes,but it can also give him the idea that maybe u want to get back with him)

It's also not a good idea to run away if he starts crying,but it's not a good idea to give him a hug either.
here are some things u should say:

We've had an amazing time together but i dont see things working out for us.(also explain why eg. he's clingy,u like somone else etc)
Ur a great person and so am i and it'd be a waste if we gave that up.we should be able to find somone to appriciate us enough ha?

And if he says something,don't look bored and listen to wat he's saying.
after all it's not him that's the heartbreaker and maybe he has something important to tell u.

I'm really sorry i cudnt help più but this is all i'm SURE of. other things i no arent really reliable...

Lots of Amore (hope i helped!!)
ur mate lilacool =)
p.s.that pic under there is a cuore (DUH!!). it represents his cuore now. his cuore is gunna be broken later and all u can do is not be too harsh and sound sincere just to help it not break too much!
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 Dear jacobblack45, u cant break up with somone without hurting them but u can break up with them without hurting them MUCH. so heres wat u shouldn't say: We'll still be friends. See u around. We could stay in touch,hey lemme call u later!(this is good sometimes,but it can also give him the idea that maybe u want to get back with him) It's also not a good idea to run away if he starts crying,but it's not a good idea to give him a hug either. here are some things u should say: We've had an amazing time together but i dont see things working out for us.(also explain why eg. he's clingy,u like somone else etc) Ur a great person and so am i and it'd be a waste if we gave that up.we should be able to find somone to appriciate us enough ha? And if he says something,don't look bored and listen to wat he's saying. after all it's not him that's the heartbreaker and maybe he has something important to tell u. I'm really sorry i cudnt help più but this is all i'm SURE of. other things i no arent really reliable... Lots of Amore (hope i helped!!) ur mate lilacool =) p.s.that pic under there is a cuore (DUH!!). it represents his cuore now. his cuore is gunna be broken later and all u can do is not be too harsh and sound sincere just to help it not break too much!
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i'm not that helpful but i'm più helpful than the others so far!!!=)
lilacool posted più di un anno fa
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thank te that was soooo helpful =D
jacobblack45 posted più di un anno fa
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ur welcome! lots of hugs! and u other ppl, see she liked my advice!! =)
lilacool posted più di un anno fa
orangeturnip said:
if te hurt them , its the only way they can get over te unless they wasnt really into te in the first place!!!
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K5-HOWL said:
I have no idea T_T
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sapherequeen said:
Well, to be honest I don't think there will be a way that someone can break up with someone else without hurting them the least bit.

But what I would suggest te do is to be gentle, sweet, kind, and always put in that te would Amore to keep him as a close friend :)
Try to be very sympathetic with his feelings, and with doing this avoid doing o saying anything that te may think would hurt him...

Hope this helps....
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lol
orangeturnip posted più di un anno fa
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its up to te if te go for a softly softly approach but im telling te most guys dont get that
orangeturnip posted più di un anno fa
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agree with sapherequeen
lilacool posted più di un anno fa
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well yah that could work thxs
jacobblack45 posted più di un anno fa
amazingXmooses said:
if he really does like you, then it's going to hurt him. but he'll sposta on.
that's all there is to it.
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
There's no such thing as a guy who doesen't get hurt after a break up.
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true...but,she can try and be a bit gentle and supportive cos that helps him realise shes not reely a bad person!
lilacool posted più di un anno fa
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dont change my option P.P
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