Can te help me with my guy troubles?

I need advice. There are these two guys that i like a ton. But i am going out w/ one of them (lets call him Eric) but still have feelings for the other one.. lets call him Ron. So a few months fa i told Ron that i just want to be friends, and im pretty sure he cried :(... But now i have feelings for Ron, but now he's ignoring me. How can I stay Friends w/ Ron and not let Eric get in the way of that? (CHEATING IS NOT AN OPTION)plz help! thanks :)
 catsrule465 posted più di un anno fa
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LadyL68 said:
This sounds like a problem my friend is having. She won't take my advice, but maybe te will. te have to be direct with both of them. Do it soon, o else te will lose both of them. te have a few options.
1. Break up with Eric and tell Ron that your sorry te hurt him. Be Friends with him for a while, then ask him out when te think he is ready.
2.Stick with Eric if te truly like him.
3. Be just Friends with both of them.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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but i want to be più than Friends for sure w/ eric, but i dont like ron ignoring me(and btw i chose the name ron from hp :) --but anyway, how do i get ron to lighten up a bit and be best Friends practicall?
catsrule465 posted più di un anno fa
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Thats a tough one, but I'd just say that te need to talk to Ron and appologise if te hurt him. Be nice to him and see if he really is what te want in a guy. You'll find the one thats better for te eventually. Nice name choice, btw :)
LadyL68 posted più di un anno fa
thespikedturtle said:
Being a guy, I'd really want to know if a situation like this was going on.

If I was Ron, I'd feel mad at te only if I truly liked you, and I'd want to know if te felt the same way towards me.

If I was Eric, I'd be completely clueless on what was happening, and I'd like to know if te actually felt anything toward me.

I think it'd be easier if te saw this from every possible perspective, and I hope it works out!
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posted più di un anno fa 
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Thanks, that helped :) but Eric know i really like him... however i doubt Ron has a clue :(
catsrule465 posted più di un anno fa
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Just stay honest to both of them, things will work out eventually! :)
thespikedturtle posted più di un anno fa
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