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what do i do if my soon to be hubby wants do have sex before we get married if i dont belive in sex before marriage?

 romanandkayla posted più di un anno fa
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jameswilson said:
If he really loves te he should respect your wishes and wait for te - otherwise maybe te should be reconsidering.
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thank u
romanandkayla posted più di un anno fa
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I was going to say the same thing.
Pink_Love posted più di un anno fa
dreamfields said:
Just let him know that the point is non negoitable. Explain how special things will be after you're married.
If he persists, tell him to take a cold shower. Worst case senerio is te may have to rethink things. Guys, myself included. should repesct the visualizzazioni of the woman we love.
Never forget, te only get one first time.
Young males need to learn self control. Mind over hormones.
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i toyally agree except 4 the fact that im a girl...
FunkeLover posted più di un anno fa
jester616 said:
How soon are te two getting married? I would think he could wait just a little longer, esp as it's important to you.

Emphasize the importance of waiting as well as telling him how special your "first night" will be.

Good luck.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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were getting married in about 2 years... im only 17.... so idk
romanandkayla posted più di un anno fa
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Oh wow. I was thinking weeks!! I still think that if it's important to te to wait, then he should respect that. After all, te could end up changing your mind too. I know this is personal, but do te guys do anything sexual right now, like oral? If so, I would think that could be a compromise.
jester616 posted più di un anno fa
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I'm not sure how doing oral makes te lose your dignity and so on, but I respect your viewpoint. It's just that it's no secret that guys Amore it, and if they're in a committed, monogamous relationship, it's usually a decent way to relieve that certain tension. Of course I'd expect him to reciprocate.
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rosslove said:
Tell him to chill out and wait if u dont want 2 dont just say u kno i wanna wait so we r
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FunkeLover said:
i am a Christain and I truly believe that people should not have sex until after they r married. (I also dont think i could wait 2 yrs but thats totaly not my place to but in.)i think u should save ur purity 4 ur honey moon! just remember that the white wedding dress stands 4 purity. U dont want 2 feel guilty wearing it! Good Luck, put ur foot down, & May the force be with you!
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