Adult advise please

Well crap, yes that sucks, for you, and is sad for him. I'm an adult & I have been married. My ex was a diabetic and sometimes faced similar issues. te just have to act like it doesn't matter, even though they know it does and they know it does to you, but that only makes it worse. It happens. They need to know that it is not that bad. Just be comforting and loving til they work through it and maybe be sneaky sexy if need be, so they do not realise te are trying, lol. It happens to a lot of men and a lot of couples and it is più mental than physical. Try not to bring it up o call più attention to the thought and just be loving & caring. (He can seek a doctors help for it is he needs to...there are injections and things).

Your boyfriend needs to calm down. This sort of problem affects so many men in this world i'm surprised there still shy to talk about it. He is not alone out there.
But he does need to go see a doctor to confermare what exactly it is. To my knowledge there are two types 1. erectile dysfunction which can either be mental o physical so needs to be checked da a doctor anyway o 2. performance anxiety where the man in domanda is so wrapped up in how his partner may percieve him he begins to experience negative thoughts about himself and his performance, leaving him and his body detoriated to those around him and the problem at hand.

Both can be cured with time, Amore and trying over and over again. Depending on person it may be wise to either ignore the problem when it arises and switch to other hobbies/conversations o talking through it reminding it's not his fault and there is no shame in it, that te are there to support it.
If he doesn't feel up to talking about it te can mostra him in other ways that te are there for him and still Amore him. Making his favourite dinner, baciare and hugging him as normal o inviting his Friends over for a birra and a footy match on tv while te go out shopping.

The best te can do is support him and continue to Amore him, there will be times when he will seem to be slipping away from you, blaming te o saying things that make te think he is blaming you, blaming himself, getting angry and snappish. The best ways to deal with that is to walk away, calm down and then return with a smile to make him know there are no hard feelings.

There are so many support groups out there, both for the man going through it and his family, just Google o look in the phone book and you'll find them.

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