How do I convince my parents for a dog?

I know that there are SO many Q&A's about this but my situation is WAY different! I really need some consigli so anything and everything helps! Ok, so about 3 years fa my baby sister was born, a anno later I was really into getting a dog and all that stuff and I talked to my mom-she was ok with it, but we all knew that my dad was the one to convince, he thinks they are waaaayyyyy to much work and we don't have the time. One night we had a discussion with all my "reasons" and all that stuff, and he detto "in one anno when your sister is 2, te guys can, but I'm not doing anything, it's your responsibility". Ok got it? Now my sister is 3 yrs old and guess what? NO DOG! I forgot about it for a bit because I was relieved about him saying yes, then I realized that it wasn't happening, their excuse was that we are really busy and don't have time. Pls don't say oh make a presentation, write a letter, etc, I did all that and had no effect whatsoever! My dad thinks that I am responsible enough (I help out all the time, do the dishes, babysit, good grades, etc) but out neighbors daughter had a dog, went to college and now her parents are stuck with it, my dad doesn't want that with him and my mother. My idea was to get a senior dog but idk if that's a good idea o how to bring it up.

I NEED ADVICE, ANYTHING BECAUSE I AM DESPERATE!

Thanks in ahead!
 mermaidgirl25 posted più di un anno fa
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LaughingHyena said:
Okay...this is what I would think about in the situation anyway...
My theory would be to be decisive about what kind of dog te want. Ultimately all Cani are different, but the breed and age of the dog can potentially affect the personality. te say a senior dog might be a good idea-this would certainly mean none of the puppyhood stage but if it is too senior then that could cause problems of its own, such as incontinence, age-related diseases, unwillingness in exercising etc. Maybe a good choice would be a young adult dog, well out of the cucciolo stage but still a long way off any age-related problems, though that all depends on what kind of dog you're looking for; personally I think a senior dog might be a bit tricky as a first pet judging from my own experience. The breed also plays a big part; te say your dad thinks a dog would be too much hard work, maybe a dog that has the minimum of special requirements would be best. In which case I probably wouldn't recommend collies, greyhounds o huskies for example; collies need to be kept busy and exercised and need a lot of space, and Cani such as greyhounds and Siberian Huskies often have strong hunting instincts. Don't be fooled da small breeds either; they often need più maintenance than big ones, especially in behaviour issues. Retrievers are lovely friendly pets, very gentle around children and people in general, though they are immensely greedy and will literally eat anything, so te have to watch their weight. Poodles are often recommended as being the ideal companion dog in terms of personality, though if your dad kind of favours a più 'doggy' looking dog then the idea of a poodle might put him off, it depends on whether te want its pelliccia clipped in funny patterns o not. I'd give terriers a miss around bambini and small animals, with the exception of the Cairn Terrier, which I believe is supposed to be a bit più gentle. Decide what kind of dog you're after, do lots of research until te see the kind of dog te think would fit your lifestyle. Get your mum to look into it with you; it's a good thing if your mum wants a dog too. Figure out what your 'ideal' dog is, take into account it's breed, age and where it has come from, and mostra your dad all the good things about having that kind of dog. Try to say it gently at first like 'Dad, would te mind just looking at this a minute?' and try to give him no reason to complain. If you're decisive about what kind of dog would suit te (and not just based on appearances) then te might stand a better chance of convincing your dad that having a dog is a good idea.
Hope this helps
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Thanks so much for the advice! I'm still weary about what to say to him about "the long term responsibility" hes still worried that he'll end up looking after it in 5/6 years....
mermaidgirl25 posted più di un anno fa
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No probs, yes that sounds like a good idea! :) She is chronically lazy, and greedy, and smelly...and it detto in the dog breed book that her breed, Flat-Coated-Retriever, would need 'considerable exersize'...she's a big softie though.
LaughingHyena posted più di un anno fa
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I wil try that then, thanks for your help!
mermaidgirl25 posted più di un anno fa
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