One Thing I don't get...

I have always thought that she loved them both. In different ways, but she did.
With Stefan, it was kind of harder. He wouldn't let himself fall for her mainly because of his strong principles, while with Damon, she didn't have to worry; he loved her too much to care about anything else.

The kind of relationship she had with Stefan was different from the one she had with Damon and vice-versa, but I think she loved them in her own way.

It just wasn't the way Damon needed to be loved, I guess. (:

I think that we can say that she loved them both, in a certain way (at last the only people Kat cares about in the world, apart herself, are Stefan and Damon), but she hasn't had the big Amore of her life, the exclusive one; she is too selfish, also because she's got to spend all her life running out and looking out for herself; but she does feel something real for them. I think that Stefan has been less at her feet than Damon, so she finds funnier to be after him, but not because she loves Stef più than Damon; the whole VD story is based on a Amore triangolo of a girl and two vampires! If the girl, who originally was Kat, would choose, there wouldn't be any story at all! lol

Maybe that Kat loved them both, but she loved Stefan più than Damon