I need help :(

So this person on fanpop has problems, mentally and physically. I feel super bad for her and want her to not visit this website anymore because people keep making fun of her cause they do not realize she has issues.

What do I do? I don't want it to continue.....

HELP!!!

And i know it's not my business but when it comes to bullies I automatically step up
 E_M_LoVeRFaN posted più di un anno fa
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r-pattz said:
Stand up to the assholes, obviously. te fight them, but... in a "good" way. Don't curse at them, no trofei lock, stay rational, use intelligent arguments. Just fight them, and maybe they won't go away, maybe they will. But either way, they'll know te and her aren't just helpless victims. Maybe they'll learn something, gain some respect. But like I said, keeping your head is the most important thing.

And segnala them, definitely. If they are saying awful things, they'll get banned before long, and then your problem will be solved.

But, te realize, if that girl has long-lasting problems, she's gonna get teased all her life. She's gotta learn to deal with it. This is like a glimpse of what is to come. Make sure she stands up to them, too, because she's gotta do that. Take a stand rather than relying on other people.
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She won't get used to it because her problems are so bad that she does not even realiz she is being insulted
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So then te do have to stand up to them, if she can't herself. *shrugs* It's that simple.
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invadergiggles said:
i hope they burn in hell
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thank te
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dreamfields said:
I agree with r-pattz that te can stand up for her. Maybe it might help if in your reply, te rephrased your Friends domanda so others might understand. te can segnala the real rude and hurtfull people. The problem is, I don't think it's plausible to expect to get all of them banned. Sometimes there seems to be an endless supply. In my opion, the types of people on here are, nice people who respond respectfully, nice people who respond with sarcasism (hoping the other person reconizes the sarcasim as fun). There are also those who are idiots and will respond even if they know what they are talking about o not and don't care who they hurt. Lastly, there are those few who always seem to be looking for a fight.
Reviewing every thing your friend posts and then trying to defend her, might ruin your enjoyment of the site in the end.
Here is a suggestion, is there one o più people who could spend time with your friend over a giorno o two, to help her understand the responses she recieves. Maybe, they could offer suggestions on how to phrase a question, so she will get less negative feedback. Yes, if, and once she understands the responses she is getting, she will have to develope a thick skin. It's so sad. I really hope te find a way to help your friend. I am saying this from personal experience. I have had mild cerebral palsy my entire life. Childhood held painfull memories from other kids and adults who didn't understand. I can look back to a 7th grade teacher that understood and planted seeds of self esteem. That made a great difference in my life. May God grant te wisdom on how to help yor friend.
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