Any advice,please? I need help!

So my dog died couple of days fa but my mom didn't tell me.. She detto "he run off" and "what are te going to do when he dies,he is old.." but i didn't want to think anything over.. Than i overheard my brother and grandmother talking about lying to me because i'll be sad.. And from then i pressed my feelings but now it just came up.. I act in school like everything's okay but i don't know who i should talk to.. i'm so sad and even più sadder than my family didn't tell me.. I spend my life with him and now he's gone.. I'm starting to cry even when i think of him,and te should know i don't cry allot..
Please help me,what should i do? :'(
 piperleoforever posted più di un anno fa
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Goldilottes said:
I'm in a similar situation to this.
te need some time to be on your own without any disturbances to come to terms with everything. te need to understand that your family were worried about te being upset about the dog, so thats why they didnt tell you, although personally i think they should never have lied to you. te need to, when the time is right, talk to the most trusted member of your family about your feelings and everything, and calmly ask why they lied to you. there's probably a good reason, and get things out in the open and cleared up.

A lot of bad things have happened to me too recently so i know what te mean about the pretending everythings ok at school, because that seems like the easiest way. maybe if te have a really trusted best friend te could tell her how yu feel, o even your favourite teacher if they are nice. I've felt the same as youve described since my special cat died too- a couple of months ago, which was partially my fault and i feel terrible about it and cry all the time because of the other pressures too. I am planning in the successivo few months to get a new rescue kitten to make me feel better and to keep my other cat company. maybe te could, in a few months after everythings settled down go out to choose your own rescue puppy, and youd feel better because te were giving an animal a home. te should talk this through with your family and tell them how much it would mean to you.
te should also keep a locked diary of your current feelings o a password protected word document- you'd be surprised how much easier it feels just to have it all on paper instead of clogging up your mind.
te should also get some hobbie to take your minbd off things- maybe look in the back of tabloids for hobbies o youth clubs, o your school bulletin / noticeboard for after school clubs. o even arrange a giorno out o a sleepover with your Friends and tell them some things about how te feel then with out the pressure of school.

If te do all o some of these things, hopefully te will start to feel better. Hopefully te will feel a bit better soon x

Lottey<3 XX
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posted più di un anno fa 
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thank te so much
piperleoforever posted più di un anno fa
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xx its ok hun :)
Goldilottes posted più di un anno fa
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