Please Help Me!

Okay so I'm 15 years old and have a major crush on one of the guys I've known since I was 10. We are really great Friends but I don't know f he feels the same way back. I'm not looking for a serious relationship o anything but I'm debating about weather o not I should ask him out. Alot of my Friends have told me that I should wait for him to ask me out because he is the guy but I think that maybe that's to old fashioned and sexist. On the other hand I'm afraid that if I do ask and he doesn't feel the same way it could wreck a truly amazing friendship. I've had a crush on him since we were 12 and I just can't contain it all inside of me any più but I don't know if it's worth risking our friendship. Please help me te guys! I feel like I've turned everywhere else with no success. If te give me ligitamet consigli I will give te props! :) lol
 BookNerd17 posted più di un anno fa
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Me_Iz_Here said:
(Thinks about the amazingly similar situation I'm in)

Tell him te like him first. If he's okay with it, then ask him out. It shouldn't ruin your friendship if he's a really good friend. Just do whatever te think te should do.
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A lot better than my very long answer... lol.
Sandfire_Paiger posted più di un anno fa
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Thnx, I think that's probably what I should do and I think I know that somewhere inside of me but it still is hard to do.
BookNerd17 posted più di un anno fa
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Good luck with your situation!
BookNerd17 posted più di un anno fa
jayem801 said:
If uu really like himm... like a lot, well i think uu should just come clean ,just tell him how uu feel , .... tell him that if uu guys can be più then Friends beacause if uu just keep it all inside it's going to kill uu più trust mee' i was in this problem too... if he doseen't, at least uu had the guts to tell him... && be pround of yurr self (: if he dosen't feel the same way ?... Then just be Friends but don't let that get in the way... There lots of guys out there "a lot" maybe there sum one like him but a little better... and maybe he is just waiting on a perfect girl like te <3
i hoped i kinda helped c:
♥- Kamie
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It did sort of! It was very motivational:)
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Sandfire_Paiger said:
Well, I'm not very experienced with boys, considering I'm 12.

You've known him for five years. Well, its just me but, I think te would probably know him well enough to at least predict his reaction. Take that into account. And if it seems like it would go well, ask him out. Who cares if its 'traditional' for a guy to ask out the girl? And if te have no idea how he'll react, then I would still think about it carfully and most likely ask him out. If he says no, and things are awkward, just do things like te regularly do, and try and get things back to normal. Thats the best consigli I can give! Hope it works out well!


da the way, te might get better risposte here:

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Being as like te detto te don't have a ton of experience with boys, that was a very good answer :) it's just hard because the way he is he is never really open about any type of serious emotion and I get nervous sometimes talking with him about it.
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creepyboy7 said:
follow your dear heart! that is the dearest consigli i can give te at this dear moment!
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Lol, thnx
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Animetama said:
If te don't wanna ask him out, then look for signs that tell te whether o not he likes te o not. Like if he talks to te alot o leans foward whenever te guys talk. Im sure it'll all work out in the end. Try flirting yourself too, if he responds, then I'm sure he likes te on some level.
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Thnx :) but I'm a terrible flirt! lol
BookNerd17 posted più di un anno fa
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lolz then practice >:P however he flirts with te (if he does) flirt the same way!
Animetama posted più di un anno fa
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