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Okay I like one of my guy friends..so a while back I told him that I liked him and he detto he just wanted to be friends. And even though it hurt to hear that..I just accepted it. So now he got a girlfriend. And believe he I am happy for Jim. But wwhenevr I tell him not to bring her up o anything about being single o in a relationship. But he does anyways!!!!! And when we hung out yesterday..he just..well..completely ignored me..it wasn't as fun as it used to be..how do I handle this all and what is he trying to say..?????
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alex1201 posted più di un anno fa
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dreamfields said:
Sometimes when a guy has a crush o is infatuatied with a girl, she is all he thinks about. I don't think he's trying to be mean to you, it's just a phase.
I think it's reasonable for te to request that he does not only talk about her when te two are hanging out.
But, if te want to be Friends with him, te will have to accept that she is important to him. So he will mention her from timeto time.
Tell him how te feel. Hopefully he will understand. For your sake, try not to wait around for the two of te to be più than friends. That can be the most miserble experience. Good luck.
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awwllss yeshhhh he talks about her NON-STOP!!!!! and it really hurts..i told him not to bring her uo mannyyy of times...but, he continues to do it..
alex1201 posted più di un anno fa
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It might be hard, but te might need to spend less time around him. I say this one. so te don't have to have your feelings hurt. Second, it might cause him to stop and think about what he's doing. These type of situations are the ones I do not miss from being a teenager. Hang in there, and do what's best for you.
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Well looks like te have to go out of your way not to talk to him *sorry* and if tries to sit successivo to te on the bus asking why you've been avioding him lately just say 'It's for the best.' te know soothing like that so te don't hurt him
Dhampires posted più di un anno fa
Mileym said:
Well i think te should talk to him abt how u feel cuz he might nt know that u'r nt liking it .....hope this helps
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true..but its like..he just doesnt take it seriously.
alex1201 posted più di un anno fa
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So i think he dosn't want u as a friend anymore..i think u shoukd ignore him & if he really cared abt u'r friendship he'll cm bak
Mileym posted più di un anno fa
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