best friend?

Alright, Last anno was my first anno of high school. I was really excited and nervous at the same time. As soon as high school started, almost everyone I knew changed completely, except for my bff. Most of the girls in my anno would talk about boys, trying to make their skirts a little shorter and who should go out with who. My bff and I stayed the same. We would tell each other secrets, talk about the most random things and always laughing together, just like we did in primary. Soon at the start of term 3 she started hanging out with this group of girls. They were nice and funny, but they would talk about the disgusting things (hope te know what I mean!), try to be cool and talk behind peoples back. After that my bff left me and changed from an innocent girl who is always dressed perfectly and nice to everyone. Now a girl who wears heaps of make up and bugs people around her. I miss her and it hurts so much to lose someone that can make te smile everyday! I have other good friends, but they aren't as close as she was. I sometimes feel really lonely without a Best friend, so during my free time I would study and focus on school work, and its slightly getting boring. What should I do? thank you...... :)









 prettyme16 posted più di un anno fa
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Lt_Kowalski said:
That is very common with teens. Very..

I am not a female, but the only thing I can say is that, as sad is as it is that te Lost your best friend, te will one giorno find another best friend. Maybe te might find her in college. And now that you've seen what te ex best friend is really like, te know now not to hopefully make the same mistake again.. And once te are well into your late teens and early twenties, te will HOPEFULLY have a good life and look back and laugh that off because te will have much better friends. Let's hope they don't screw te over but just hope that te will know più on who to trust and what REALLY big decisions te must make in your life. te are still young. te don't want to make any mistakes. te want to have goals and not worry about the small things. If te make goals now, accomplish them later, te will be proud of yourself. te will meet GOOD Friends along the way.. Trust me.

A good friend is one who stays with te all the way through your life when the others have walked out..

I hope that helped. :)
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that is really touching! thanks it made me felt a bit better! :)
prettyme16 posted più di un anno fa
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Really good answer. The only thing I can add is don't try to force a new bff; te will in time have another close friend. It's ok to feel the sense of loss right now. te never know, she could also come back, and then it's up to te if te think the friendship is worth it.
jester616 posted più di un anno fa
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last sentence...so true :)
coriann posted più di un anno fa
coriann said:
i know what it's like to Amore somebody and see their face everyday and know that they will never Amore you, they will never talk to te again and experience the hurt they put te though in your mind over and over again like a CD

she's changed, people change when they get older, maybe she just wants to be a teen and be popolare and cool and enjoy that part of her life to the fullest...and that's what she thinks will get her that, just know that that person you're seeing, it's not the same person te hung out with in primary anymore, most likely she will change again when she gets older, but who cares it isn't about her it's about te and figuring out who te are, enjoy all of the wonderful things that te have and forget her, te may never be able to find a new best friend if te don't sposta on and forget her, good luck kid
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sometimes losing a best friend could be like, severing one of your limbs ^ ^ XD because te were so close, it's like there is a hole where she was (i've Lost a number of best friends) but since she was constant with te for a long time the pain must be greater...but just keep looking inoltrare, avanti for new opertunities, and don't look so far ahead that te forget to see the good things that are right in front of te ^ ^
coriann posted più di un anno fa
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all my Cd's are dubstep now. all scratched up :/
seffro posted più di un anno fa
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XD
coriann posted più di un anno fa
seffro said:
I Lost the greatest friend I've ever had a mese ago
his parents made it so I may never see/talk to him again
I remember meeting him just like this
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 I Lost the greatest friend I've ever had a mese fa his parents made it so I may never see/talk to him again I remember meeting him just like this
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lol, i like the pic...so did te actually lose someone?
coriann posted più di un anno fa
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Awwwww!!!!
prettyme16 posted più di un anno fa
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:\ ....don't give up hope!
coriann posted più di un anno fa
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