Does anyone have any good ideas to wein me off this guy? (Please read for più of the story.) I need ideas to get him off my mind.

I've had this crush on this guy for the past two months. He's amazingly nice & sweet to me & is the first guy that has just made me guenually happy. Last week, I told him that I liked him & he didn't say anything back if he liked me o not, so last night @ the dance, I confronted him & asked him how he felt. He told me that he thought of me only as a friend & I tried not to act heartbroken in front of him, but I was REALLY angry & I just haven't been myself today, (although, he didn't make me myself either, I was too happy & cheerful, not mean and hateful like the usual Kali everyone knows.) But, I don't want to hate him like all the other guys, but I need to get him off my mind, (because he's all I've been able to think about the past 2 weeks) & now he's eating away @ my brain cells. So, does anyone have any consigli on how I should get my mind off of him. (Note: I do not live in a town, so I cannot go to a mall, theater, shopping center, o see my Friends everyday.) Please help me, I'm desperate. <3
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daisylove said:
i dont know how i can help
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okay
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jem_ said:
Try destracting yourself. Keep yourelf busy to get your mind off him. Do te have any hobbies like like drawing, writing, reading? Scrivere your feelings out in a journal might be helpful, if te keep a diarie o not. Listen to music, make plans with firends.. that's what i would do.
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Yes I draw, write & read, but ever since I've been crushin on him, I haven't been able to be myself & do that w/o still thinking of him. I do write in a journal & it helps, I have it da my side now because I need to write down what I'm thinking o I'm going to explode again. Thanks for the advice, I just wish I could get him out.
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sidlow said:
everytime te think about that guy think about someone thats funier, cuter, più talented and tell yourself that there are better guys out there for you, and te will meet him someday. trust me, i have been in your situation, and i have found better guys than those old ones that i used to constantly have on my mind. i still havent found the right guy, but im a pro at getting over guys now. and it really helps if te start doing things for yourself, and start loving yourslef for who te really are, and always make room for self improvement, because alot of the time not being able to get over a guy has something to do with bad self image, not always, but alot of the time. hope this helps:)
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te kinda took the words right out of my best Friends mouth. she told me to do stuff for myself, like te detto & I'm gonna try. to find a different guy, i'd have to get a miracle because there are only 37 kids in my school & i've known all the other guys forever, so i don't know if that'll work. but thank te so much for your advice.
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youre very welcome sweetheart:)
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thanks so much
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