i need help on dealing with hard times!( be careful what te dont wish for)prop for reply

1.well..i need lots of advie. one thing, em and my friend kimmy where talking in the lcker room yesterday aobut how cancer runs in both our familys and the fear of us getting it. and i was like" lets go kim where going to be alte for class." as we walked i said, " besides. neither of us are going to get cancer." and she detto " your right"

she went to teh doctor..got some tests done. she has cancer. what are the odds

2. my brotehr brents girlfriend sarah, my sister hopes bf kyle and ten anno old sister where driving with tom..who was drunk. sarah and kyle could drive but of course he wouldnt let them drive HIS car. well..he was going fast and sarah kept yelling at him to slow down. getting anoyed he tried tp hit her, so she went for the wheel( he wasent controlling it) he pushed her off the wheel and started controlling it. trying to dodge a car they rolled into a ditch and rolled a few tiems. everyone died..except tom. my brother hates tom. he did some stuff to my sister. also . hope and kyle where together 4 YEARS! they got together her twelth birthday. well all three of them are gone now. how could tom be so stupid

3. also i was with my bestfriend/crush alex today. i was stupid and confused and Lost and elt him baciare me and do stuff with me( not sex) he has a girlfriend. so why am i so low?? i know hes wiht ehr right now. im so confused..and some of te amy know about my dad situation too.

plzz give me consigli o soemthing


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heavenly13 posted più di un anno fa
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OMG... I wish I had some good advice. Um, about the best I can say is be supportive of your friend and brother and try to forget Alex since he has a girlfriend. Not really good advice, and I know it won't make te feel better, but that's the best I can do.
shomill posted più di un anno fa
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no,,more like an ememy.
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LadyL68 said:
Oh my gosh, thats awful :-(. I'm so sorry.

First of all, it's not your fault that your friend has cancer. te need to support her at this tough time. Let her know she's in your prayers, and help her in any way te can. And don't worry, just because she has cancer dosen't mean te are going to get it.

For the secondo thing, theres not much te can do. I'm sorry that it happened, but I am not good at giving consigli for hard stuff like that.

As for the third thing, we all make mistakes. Forgive yourself and sposta on. If he o his girlfriend asks o says anything, admit to doing it and say that te were wrong and wernt trying to do anything to get between them o break them up.

Good luck with this issue! Know that te are in my prayers!
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That's a great answer. Pretty much what I would say.
robothor1111 posted più di un anno fa
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thanks
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phangirl2009 said:
1. i would try to help your friend feel better. just because she has cancer doesent mean that she wont make it. there are many surviors.
2.i would just try to forget that whole situation.
3. i would talk to him and ask him why he did wat he did.
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i used i would the whole time.
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K5-HOWL said:
When life gives te a hundred reasons to cry, mostra life that te have a thousand reasons to smile. Be who te are and say what te feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind, For as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your cuore broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend o maybe even fall in Amore with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and Amore like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no secondo chances. te just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to te and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances o fall in Amore and most of all, live in the moment because every secondo te spend angry o upset is a secondo of happiness te can never get back
Live with no excuses and Amore with no regrets, cause in the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths te took, but how many moments took your breath away

AND!!!!!

Understand the past, let go of pain and sorrow, for if do the road will open and everything will go right
For Amore comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still Amore even though they've been hurt before.
The future is what te make it. Only te can make it depressing o happy. Only te can make yourself have a bad future o a good one. Sometimes I ask myself why not choose to die? Well the answer to that is because we have the power to change the future. I chose to change it.

plus u dont have to give me a prop
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 When life gives te a hundred reasons to cry, mostra life that te have a thousand reasons to smile. Be who te are and say what te feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind, For as we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let us down, probably will. You'll have your cuore broken and you'll break others' hearts. You'll fight with your best friend o maybe even fall in Amore with them, and you'll cry because time is flying by. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and Amore like you've never been hurt. Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no secondo chances. te just have to live life to the fullest, tell someone what they mean to te and tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someone's hand, comfort a friend, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, and smile until your face hurts. Don't be afraid to take chances o fall in Amore and most of all, live in the moment because every secondo te spend angry o upset is a secondo of happiness te can never get back Live with no excuses and Amore with no regrets, cause in the end, it's not going to matter how many breaths te took, but how many moments took your breath away AND!!!!! Understand the past, let go of pain and sorrow, for if do the road will open and everything will go right For Amore comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed, to those who still Amore even though they've been hurt before. The future is what te make it. Only te can make it depressing o happy. Only te can make yourself have a bad future o a good one. Sometimes I ask myself why not choose to die? Well the answer to that is because we have the power to change the future. I chose to change it. plus u dont have to give me a omaggio
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aww that was real good. ill still give u a prop:)
heavenly13 posted più di un anno fa
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thx u
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Twilight_Dream said:
God, im so so sorry. my dad died of cancer when i was about 7 i think. i didn't really understand it at the time so i don't know if i was sad. so i don't really know how to give te coping consigli with death issues. but te are in my prayers and thoughts from this giorno on. and just because your friend got cancer, does NOT mean te will. but make sure to be there for your friend because even though this is a hard time for you, it also is for her. and i'm sure she will be there for te in return. and about the crush thing, just don't let that happen again. even though te like him, he DOES have a girlfriend. so just let the past be the past. and if te feel like crying, don't hold it in. just cry. it helps. maybe some people won't always be there for you, but God always will be. he welcomes te with open arms.
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 God, im so so sorry. my dad died of cancer when i was about 7 i think. i didn't really understand it at the time so i don't know if i was sad. so i don't really know how to give te coping consigli with death issues. but te are in my prayers and thoughts from this giorno on. and just because your friend got cancer, does NOT mean te will. but make sure to be there for your friend because even though this is a hard time for you, it also is for her. and i'm sure she will be there for te in return. and about the crush thing, just don't let that happen again. even though te like him, he DOES have a girlfriend. so just let the past be the past. and if te feel like crying, don't hold it in. just cry. it helps. maybe some people won't always be there for you, but God always will be. he welcomes te with open arms.
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