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posted by playingcold
Space Communication

Your use of spazio to communicate—an area of study known technically as proxemics—speaks as surely and as loudly as words and sentences. Speakers who stand close to their listener, with their hands on the listener’s shoulders and their eyes focused directly on those of the listener, communicate something very different from speakers who stand in a corner with arms folded and eyes downcast.

Spatial Distances
Edward Hall (1959, 1963, 1976) distinguishes four proxemic distances: types of spatial distances that define the types of relationships between people and the types of communication in which they’re likely to engage.

In intimate distance, ranging from actual touching to 18 inches,the presence of the other individual is unmistakable. Each person experiences the sound, smell, and feel of the other’s breath. te use intimate distance for lovemaking, comforting, and protecting. This distance is so short that most people don’t consider it proper in public.

Personal distance refers to the protective “bubble” that defines your personal space, ranging from 18 inches to 4 feet. This imaginary bubble keeps te protected and untouched da others. te can still hold o grasp another person at this distance, but only da extending your arms; this allows te to take certain individuals such as loved ones into your protective bubble. At the outer of personal distance, te can touch another person only if both of te extend your arms. This is the distance at which te conduct most of your interpersonal interactions; for example, talking with Friends and family.

(The other ones are social distance and public distance but I don't think they are important for us.)

Members of different cultures treat spazio differently. For example, people from northern European cultures and many Americans stand fairly far apart when conversing; those from southern European and Middle Eastern cultures stand much closer. It’s easy to see how people who normally stand far apart may interpret the close distances of others as pushy and overly intimate. It’s equally easy to appreciate how those who normally stand close may interpret the far distances of others as cold and unfriendly.
Your gender also influences your spatial relationships. Women generally stand closer to each other than men do. Similarly, when someone approaches another person, he o she will come closer to a woman than to a man. With increasing age there’s a tendency for the spaces to become larger.

The Meaning of Touch
Touch communicates a wide variety of messages (Jones & Yarbrough, 1985). Here are five major ones that will illustrate this great variety.
• Touch communicates positive feelings; for example, support, appreciation, inclusion, sexual interest o intent, composure, immediacy, affection, trust, similarity and quality, and informality (Jones & Yarbrough, 1985; Burgoon, 1991). Touch also stimulates self-disclosure (Rabinowitz, 1991).

• Touch often communicates your intention to
play, either affectionately o aggressively.

• Touch may control the behaviors, attitudes, o feelings of the other person. To obtain compliance, for example, te touch the other person to communicate “move over,” “hurry,” “stay here,” o “do it.” te might also touch a person to gain his o her attention, as if to say “look at me” o “look over here.” In some situations touching can even amount to a kind of nonverbal dominace behavior.

• Ritualistic touching centers on greetings and departures; examples are shaking hands to say “hello” o “good-bye,” hugging, kissing, o putting your arm around another’s shoulder when greeting o saying farewell.

• Task-related touching is associated with the performance of some function, as when te remove a speck of dust from another person’s coat, help someone out of a car, o check someone’s forehead for fever.

This was the secondo part of PC's communication studies class XD
posted by HuddyBea
Finally ready ladies! Enjoy! And crossed your fingers...always ;)


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Previously on December/December:


10 March 2010

“Don’t te dare thinking you’ve gotten yourself out of what you’ve promised me…” she detto stifling a chuckle but beaming widely with her eyes.
A brilliant smile erupted on his face but this time he bit his lower lip to hold himself back. He had promised himself.
“I would never…”
“You haven’t forgotten right?” she asked teasingly and half-menacing, lifting her gaze up to look at him over her eyelashes.
Someone would...
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posted by HuddyBea
Let's try to fill this Huli hole I feel inside my chest. I need news peeps XD Let's try to get to this making out moment as soon as possible :P
Always many, many thanks to @rrennie and @Belle...

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5 March 2010


“So we are back to the story of your life…” Robert detto bitterly “You won’t take the plunge till someone comes along and takes te da your hand, assuring te it’s gonna be ok…Two birds with one stone, otherwise it isn’t even worth it ?” he snapped even più bitterly. He scoffed, making him feel...
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posted by HuddyBea
I am not able to think straight at the moment. I am hiperventilating thanks to that french article...as @rrennie said....huge Huli footprint...but anyway, moving on...enjoy ;)

LITTLE EDITING sorry I wasn't functioning earlier :P I really need to thank @rrennie for this chapter, 'cause she truly helped me figuring out a few things...making some useful adjustments :) At risk of sounding like a broken record, she is amazing.
Thanks to @Belle, always. Amore te woman!

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Previously on December/December:


“Well, at least, I was the one who started it…”...
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posted by HuddyBea
Ok, I made it. This editing is exhasperating though :P I am gonna complain to the people in charge about it XD
Here te go, with the little nice help of @rrennie who provided the language tips (damn irregular verbs) and a sweet, sweet review ;) @Belle who provided a nice moral support. Amore ya ladies ;)
Now if you'll excuse me, I am DYING TO READ @MAV'S NEW CHAPTER!!! XD

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Previously on December/December:

"“I do nice things, nice things happen to me” he detto spreading his arms open triumphantly “Karma works”
“So you’re paying it forward?”...
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posted by Belle0308
Thank te all for the very kind comments. I have been enjoying Scrivere this one. I hope te like this part as well. My unofficial editor has approved this, so here it goes.


Wherever Lisa was, it always seemed like Hugh was close with his hand either on her back o her hand on his arm. On the rare occasions they weren’t in some form of physical contact, they were in eye contact that came in everything from long stares to short, stolen glances. It didn’t go without Robert noticing. He leaned over to Hugh when they were away from close ears.

“Are te two SURE te want to come to my place afterwards?”...
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ciao sinners :DDDDDDDDD Here's another capter for te :DDDD and don't worry, I'm Scrivere new ones every giorno so te won't wait :))))
Thanks for Leggere :DDDD


The moment he got out of car his eyes started to cerca for her, for her glowing skin, for her silky her, for her amazing smile. And there she was, looking più gorgeous than ever, in a black toga, abito that fitted her better than any other toga, abito before. He saw the press making fuss all around her and countless cameras flashing. He started to walk down the red carpet when he saw her turning around. Although they were far apart, their eyes found...
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posted by huddyforever
Sorry this one sucks so bad:( The successivo one will be better I promise!



Once back at Lisa’s house Hugh carried his backpack full of stuff in and Lisa took the liberty of finishing putting Hugh’s groceries away. Hugh sat at the cucina tavolo drinking his coffee, as did Lisa. They just stared out the window. “You have a patio?” He asked randomly. “Yeah.” She said. “I never noticed.” He detto getting up and walking out. She also had an in-ground pool with some lawn chairs and a hot tub. “This is nice!” He detto as he sat in one of the chairs that was successivo to the pool. She sat in...
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Hugh just got home from shooting the last scene of episode 2. He thought after the sex scene in the first episode he was in the clear, boy was he wrong. He doesn’t even know how he made it through rehearsals...
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posted by Noeloe
Thank te for your sweet reviews!

Enjoy!

Chapter 17

‘Ahh! There are our drinks! What took te so long man?’, Omar asked. ‘I got a call.’, Hugh answered and gave him a faint smile. ‘Ooh, I get it, I get it. Hope te don’t mind we already started the game’, Omar nodded and laughed. Hugh shook his head no. ‘Well here’s to the 3 B’s guys!’, Omar said. ‘Beer, babes and bowling!’, Jesse replied. ‘Cheers.’, Hugh detto and quickly took a sip of his beer. ‘Strike!’, Robert yelled and proudly walked back to the table. ‘Did te see that guys?! I just made a strike! Me!...
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posted by Noeloe
Ooo, you're so nice to me! So as promised, the secondo part of chapter 14!

It's SUPER CHEESY, so be warned:P

Chapter 14 B

She was standing at the side of the Lake looking at her watch, it was 10.28 pm. She almost hadn’t made it because David wanted to talk to her about a few changes in a scene which they are going to shoot tomorrow. Luckily she had gotten away in time. She had quickly changed into the sweater Hugh had dato her earlier that evening and smiled as it fitted perfectly. She looked up at the Lake, but couldn’t really see anything as it had gotten too dark. At exactly 10.30 she...
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