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May someone help me to feel better? I'm really upset. :(

So my mother and I went to the graveyard a while fa today. We took the dead fiori off of my grandfather's grave. He died just several days ago. July 20th. And tears started pouring down my face. I couldn't stop them! And I detto some things to God that I shouldn't have said. And I feel SO bad! That made me feel worse!

May someone help me feel better? I feel so terrible right now! :(

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 AllynessaClaire posted più di un anno fa
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Shadowmarioking said:
Death is a natural occurrence in life that cannot be prevented. It is the natural cycle for humans to die. One should not sulk over the death of a loved one, but instead try to remember times of joy and happiness that the deceased brought to them and to others. As for the God thing, I can't help te there since I'm atheist, but I'm sure he'll forgive you...I guess.
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posted più di un anno fa 
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I know it's natural, but it still hurts.
AllynessaClaire posted più di un anno fa
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Death is going to hurt, that's why it's important to look at all the things the deceased did; all of their achievements, be it small o little, and to be thankful they were a part of your life.
Shadowmarioking posted più di un anno fa
Animeanimal said:
Just remember that god knows that te were upset at the time....he will forgive if te ask. And about your grandfather.....everything is going to be alright and I am sorry for your loss, but the Lord wanted him home and he is not suffering any more......you should be happy for him and its okay to feel sad for him too. Instead of dwelling on the past live your life knowing that one giorno te will unisciti him in te eternal home and that will sposta te forward. Also te could ask God to let him know how te are feeling and whats been going on in your life.....hope that helped ^^ Amore te and i am always here...
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That's sweet! Thank te so much! te seem like a very understanding person.(: ♥
AllynessaClaire posted più di un anno fa
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well, thank te X3
Animeanimal posted più di un anno fa
KittyKatTitan said:
Aww, Don't feel sad! Your grandfather's in a better place now, and God will forgive te for whatever te said. Just pray for forgiveness and te will be forgiven. I understand how te feel though, my grandmother just recently died, and I've been pretty upset about it. But, I'm okay now though, because my Friends and family helped me get through it. I pray that God blesses te and your family through this tough time, and I hope te get to feeling better.
Your friend,
~Kat~
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posted più di un anno fa 
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te are so sweet.(: ♥
AllynessaClaire posted più di un anno fa
Cherry9090 said:
This may help it may not I'm sorry if dosent

My mom died giving birth to me I have been blamed all my life I do not believe in god and I have cursed him alot I do not feel bad because my mom was innocent and he took her my fault o not

But u believe in him so I'll say this Hun don't worry he forgives u Hun ok no worries

And I joined the club
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I'm so sorry. It's not your fault. And thanks much for joining.
AllynessaClaire posted più di un anno fa
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Yes it is I never should have been born and most welcome
Cherry9090 posted più di un anno fa
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I'm so sorry Cherry. It's not your fault, and nobody has the right to say that it is! te couldn't help o prevent that. I know te don't believe in God, but I'm saying this anyway. I know it may seem like God took her for no reason, but he did have one. We may not know his reason, but he did have one. It was her time to go in his eyes. I know this probably isn't helping you, but I just wanted to let te know, that it's not your fault and te can't be blamed for that! I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. I know sorry doesn't help, but I felt I needed to say it. I hope te have a great life and I pray that everything goes well for you! Love, ~Kat~
KittyKatTitan posted più di un anno fa
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Kat is right. I totally agree with her. I couldn't have detto it better.
AllynessaClaire posted più di un anno fa
danfan1 said:
I don't know if this will help te o not but my grandmother died a few years fa so when i am upset o depressed about something and i am crying all i do is remember the good times and funny things she used to say. Which helps. Sorry for your loss.
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When I remember those, it makes me sadder. :/
AllynessaClaire posted più di un anno fa
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aww
danfan1 posted più di un anno fa
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