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i feel like im being stalked. advice?

ok there is a guy at work, a customer who has always been complementing me and saying that he would put a good word in for me for promotions o future jobs and stuff. but then, recently he jjust turned around and said: "will te marry me?" to me and that really scared me. first off, i have a boyfriend and second, this guy is really creepy. help? what should i do? i only have a bike to escape with should this go any further.

How old is this creeper guy?

sarabeara posted più di un anno fa

idk, but he looks to be in his mid 30s. im 19

Snugglebum posted più di un anno fa

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Well then tell your parents as well as your boss! They'll help keep the guy away from te and also help te get a restraining order.

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bubble_babe said:

Ingor in hun, but if he dosn't stop bugging te o askes te again, get the cops involed

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sarabeara said:

te need to TELL someone. Mainly your parents and your boss. Get your boss to get rid of him and kick him out successivo time he makes te feel uncomfortable.

If te feel like this, don't keep it a secret. Some may call te paranoid, but if you're getting to the point where te are asking others for help on fanpop, then that shows this isn't just somthing you're imagining, it's più serious than that.

Tell the creepy guy himself something like "I don't think that's appropriate" o "please stop. I don't feel comfortable." If he continues after that then get a restraining order against him.

posted più di un anno fa

what i told him was i already have a boyfriend. he walked away

Snugglebum posted più di un anno fa

DxCluvr said:

Call the cops,tell your boyfriend,or tell him your not interested. o tell the manager to.

posted più di un anno fa

i am afraid to tell the manager, but have told several coworkers

Snugglebum posted più di un anno fa

Well If he bothers te again te should tell the manager

DxCluvr posted più di un anno fa

dont be afraid. stand up to the creep. the manager cant help te if he doesn't know. i'd strongly advise te to tell him.

LiilacLottiie94 posted più di un anno fa

twilight0girl said:

get a restraining order.it might start with the complements (like te said) but end with their being violence.

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zanesaaomgfan said:

Call 911 and they will help. I've been there before.

This 12 anno old boy saw me at Pathmark and diddn't stop following me. So I called 911 and they arrested him. He followed me EVERWHERE! That guy(boy)Really needs a life!

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LiilacLottiie94 said:

what te have just told us, te need to tell:
the cops
your family
your parents
your co workers
your manager / boss.
they can all help te keep this guy away. if he comes near te when you're not in work just get on your bike and cycle as fast as te can away from the maddo. people cant run as fast as bikes so te should be fine.
gd luk.
x.x.x.x

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