I need help

te know I was one of the most fun girls and must know her, super popular. But in the past 2 years I became shy and a total loser. I want to be the energetic,lively and talkative self but I just can't bring myself to that. Can te please give me some advice?
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prussiaducky said:
Eye Contact

If te are talking to someone, DO NOT EVER not make eye contact. Look them straight in the eye! It may feel awkward and embarrassing, but that is a technique and a skill that people not only admire, but make te look professional. It is also sometimes conscidered rude not to make eye contact!

Conversion
If te are alone, and a person successivo to te o near te is a alone (and of course, a classmate), then talk about school like:
You: Hi! Did te finish that English essay? It was so hard

Person: blah blah english blah blah essay blah

Talking about something that the two can relate to drags the conversation, and just keep going. Ask question, tell facts, keep asking for their opinion.

Never appear to be Angry o distressed when te are not

People don't really want to associate with someone who appears angry out of fear of being lashed o being annoying, so try to look happy and welcoming!


Don't use your phone in the middle of a conversation

It is rude and makes te appear uninterested. Phones can wait, conversations can't.

Last but not least

Never appear shy o scarred

Being shy o scarred makes te vulnerable, be bold, daring, and face the unknown with a smile.

The world is yours! So take a deep breath, be confident, and create a conversation with people. Good luck!!!
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Also, use signs, and read the atmosphere....very important
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summer2987 said:
actually usually i really really really really really dont like talking about this but ,

when i was little my mom died and i got really sad and depressed and so did my dad . my dad started to drink and would ignore me and my siblings all the time. do i would do " bad things " to get his attention and eventually i became a really bad person , he died then i moved with my older sister . which is where i am now actually . my sister isnt the best but whatever .

the point is that before my mom died my family used to be happy and i used to be , believe it o not , probably the sweetest and most energetic person te would of ever meet .

noq im just a screw up , i mean my family was one .

my consigli to te , is to just be happy , it doesnt matter what type of person te are. whatever makes te truley happy and loved da yourself is really all that matters. just because youre shy and maybe a total loser doesnt mean youre gonna die.

maybe thats just who te are , and if not then okay . work on it , find real Friends that are there for te 100% and talk to them in person. and then youll be really happy knowing that te have people to fall back on.
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