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I'm kind of in a sticky situation. Advice?

Well, I already thought of what I want to do when I got older, and I plan to sposta to Texas, and pursue my dream to become a voice actress, and also meet my best friend. I also plan on going to Giappone for a year.

However, my boyfriend has other plans for us. He's planning to stay at his house while his mom (who shares my name, coincidentally enough) and grandmother sposta out, and work at the local GameStop where he lives.

I Amore his plan and all, but it might get in the way of what I plan to do.

So, what do te guys think I should put first, my goals, o my boyfriend?
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Have te talked to him about it yet? communication is key :)
doodllecake posted più di un anno fa
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Thank te for the advice.
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8theGreat said:
This is something that no one here can really help te with as it's a rather personal decision.

It all boils down to what te want in life, your own goals for your own lifestyle. How important is your relationship with your boyfriend to you? How important to te are your dreams? How important are those things in relationship to one another- which do te value more? Is your current boyfriend the person te plan on living your life with?
Those are things te have to answer for yourself.
te should also talk to your boyfriend about it as well. He's the best person to consult about this. If the two of te care about one another, te should be able to come to a consensus about it and find a solution.

And it sounds like all of this is a rather long time from now. te have time to think and sort things out. What te want in life might change between now and then, your plans may change o something else could happen to throw off your plans- the future is never certain. So don't sweat it to much for now and just talk to him about it and see how he feels. That's all te really can do for now.
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Thank te for the advice! Also I took my time and read this answer.
KissKissHannah posted più di un anno fa
Kragfan1910 said:
Make sure te talk to him.
Don't listen to some of these other guys and just up and dump him, but also know that your future is worth pursuing.

So, my consigli is don't ask us, ask him.
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Thank te for the advice!
KissKissHannah posted più di un anno fa
CokeBoy97 said:
Put your goals first. I don't have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, which means I'm free.

It's really what te wanna do tho.
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Thank te for the advice!
KissKissHannah posted più di un anno fa
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You're welcome...
CokeBoy97 posted più di un anno fa
TheCountess said:
I pretty much agree with what 8theGreat said. ...and whatever te do, don't let him trick te into having sex and get pregnant. That might trap both of te into a life te don't want, and certainly one a child doesn't deserve.
Also, is the house his to say who will stay? I'm not saying that I'm right, but that might just be something he detto to sweet talk you. I suspect that if the grandmother is living there, it's for a good reason, and she and his mom are probably not the ones who'd end up moving.
Whatever te decide, I hope te don't get hurt.

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Thank you.
KissKissHannah posted più di un anno fa
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You're welcome. :)
TheCountess posted più di un anno fa
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