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i need help he's very important to me....

he is my best friend from other country, he just got here last mese but he is starting to act weird then i found out that he break up with her gf that is also her best friend before they became a couple.....and then one giorno i asked my teacher who is also a psychologist about him , he just laugh and told me that he thinks my bestfriend is inlove with me..........and the very successivo giorno he just burst out and told me he Amore me since we were kids.....i don't know what to do, i do not want to hurt him but i don't Amore hi....pls give some advice
 bella01 posted più di un anno fa
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dreamfields said:
Well, I think te need to tell him that though te care for him, it's as a bf, not love. I've been through this and know us guys don't enjoy hearing can we be just friends. I can tell te that we do get over it.
I would suggest that te find a way to talk with him and tell him how te feel. I know it will be hard for te because te don't want to hurt him. Just remember, the longer te wait to talk to him, the harder it will be on you. Also waiting to tell him might give him the idea that te have the same feelings that he does.
Just relax and tell him as kindly as possible. There might be an short awkward period while he adjusts. But since te have been good Friends for a while, he should come around. I hope this helps. I know it seems hard, but it's part of growing up. Good luck and God bless.
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thanks alot
bella01 posted più di un anno fa
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te are very welcome.
dreamfields posted più di un anno fa
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