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goodekl said:
First off, te are not a monster and don’t te ever think that te are one. te have obviously been very hurt da the people te {used to} care about no less. te wanting to not be hurt anymore da people te Amore is normal. If I had gone through what te had gone through I would be just a weary as te are about getting in another relationship so soon.
Unfortunately, te can’t just make yourself get over this and just automatically be happy. te need time to heal and get closure. I believe that once te make peace with yourself and the situation and all the parties involved then te will be able to sposta on, te will never forget, but te will be able to sposta on with your life and be happy. Also, if o when te do get involved with Jason make sure that te really like him and want to be with him because te may very well be , subconsciously, looking for a rebound o a scapegoat to quickly get over the pain that your ex, sister, and her friend caused you.
I think that if te want to become più than just a friend with Jason, then the best thing for te to do is to take it slow. Why don’t te just spend some one on one time with him as Friends because te don’t want to enter another relationship with baggage that might ruin another chance at happiness, even though te were the innocent party/victim in this case. So just take this slow and once te make peace and te still want to peruse a relationship with him then go for it. Just be honest with him and when te are truly ready just tell him how te feel.
Also, Jason would be immensely lucky if he fell in Amore with a person like te because ,sometimes, those of us who continuously hurt and/or dato a raw deal in life turn out to be some of the best, most compassionate, understanding, beautiful, and loving people in the world. So just hang in there. Life, sometimes, has a funny way of working itself out. Meaning that one shitty situation/problem might lead te to a better/happier situation/solution. Hope that helps.
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