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Kassaremidylynn said:
I'm sorry to say that unless te let him go, there is nothing we can do to help. My mom went through the same thing - my dad cheated constantly but she stuck around. She detto she loved and him that he'd change. Guess what? He never did. She left him when I was almost five. Ten years later, and he still hasn't changed a bit. Can te imagine how depressed my mother would have been, living in a horrible situation like that for ten più years? She was already having break downs every other night. I know, I witnessed them.
Even if te Amore him, te have to think about any children te may have. Do te have any idea how traumatizing it is for a four anno old girl to watch her parents scream, yell, push each other, and knock over furniture? o to see your mother lying in her bed, alone, and crying, because your father is out and she knows he is with another woman? Those still stick with me. I still have nightmares and I still have violent reactions to argueing. Even if it is a small one, I have panic attacks. I hyperventilate, I cry, I get sweaty, and hot and then really cold...honestly, just thinking about them makes my cuore beat speed up.
That's not something te would want any future children living with. That will stick with me the rest of my life. Can te imagine how embarrassing and horrifying it is to have a panic attack in public over a couple te have never even talked to? That could happen to a child if te stay with this man.
Don't worry about being lonely. te will meet someone who is kind and treats te right one day. te don't need to stick with some bastard. te ARE worth it, no matter what your fiance may say. The environment te are in is poisonous. te need to leave it.
I know it's harsh and I know te won't want to at first. But remember something:
Amore doesn't hurt you. Amore accepts te and wants te and only you, not te and some other person on the side for a bit, and then te again. No matter what your fiance feels for you, Amore is not it. Do not get locked up in a loveless marriage. It's not worth it. Not on you, not on your family, not on any kids that may be born.
Leave him. Leave him and never look back.
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