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Should i have told her?!?!?

At Olivia's party my friend Malik told me that Rachael's boyfriend was going to break up with her a week after Christmas. In 4th grade i got the rep that i can't keep secrets so since them i havent told one thing. But Rachael knew it was something about her so she kept bugging me about it. I didnt say anything but then Malik ended up telling her and she got mad at me. She detto that was important and that i care to much about my rep but she the main one that says i cant keep things. It wasnt as much about my rep as after that some of best Friends never told me anything so i stopped for good. I wanted to tell her but i didnt want Malik to get mad me because he is a close friend too and she wont respond to my texts when i try to apoligize.
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No one says i tell secrets anymore and my Friends tell me things again.
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Invincible321 said:
I personally do think te should've told her, but te should've spoken to the person who told te first. Ask them if they heard it from a reliable fonte o it was just a rumour because there's no need to go flaring emotions over rumours. te should've told him that te felt like te needed to tell her because she is your friend. te would want your friend to tell te if someone else was saying things about you, right?
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BabyBlud said:
Your friend shouldn't be angry at you, but angry at her boyfriend for being such a coward as to not tell her his feelings there and then, and in private!!
I feel te did right, te left them to it. It's none of your business, it's between them, te were not and should never be involved. And i think te should tell her that. Her trust in te may have been damaged, but apart from apologizing and explaining te didn't think it was any of your business there is very little te can do. In time this girl may realise that te are good at keeping secrets.
However if she stays mad, i'm sorry to say she wouldn't be a true friend.
Let it be for now. te did the right thing, and that is all that matters.
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no1drwhofan said:
Now, I am not really an expert with matters of the heart. However, I am aware that whenever Friends have told me what others have detto about me, I become severely afflicted da this.
So, seeing as te are in a predicament more-or-less similar to my past ones, I suggest te withhold what te know about her boyfriend's future intentions and then when the time comes, nurture your friend. :D
Similar to what the above others have said, your friend would stay true to her ranking if she appreciated your actions. If not, then she is unworthy of your friendship. :)
Hope this consigli assists te in this issue.
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