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Why do I get stared at so much da the way I dress?

Okay so I like to dress quite Anime sometimes like over the knee socks, bright colours, big massive bows and fiori in my hair, cute dresses and everyone always gives me weird looks because of the way I dress, why do they do that it hurts me? should I just start dressing più boring?
 RnBStar13 posted più di un anno fa
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sesshyz said:
Idk.... if I saw someone dressed like that I'd have to look also. People just don't see dress like that everyday. People might even think you're a... *GASP* weeaboo. And/or hungry for attention. (Massive head-bows? really?)

If that's your style...and te want to dress that way, fine....more power to ya... but te need to be able to handle the criticism that goes along with it. People are judgmental, and dressing like that probably doesn't make a best first impression. I'm just being honest.
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Thanks :)
RnBStar13 posted più di un anno fa
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and yes I do wear massive head-bows, i think they're amazing
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np =)
sesshyz posted più di un anno fa
faiyah226 said:
te shouldn't worry about others cause your trying to express yourself and trying to make your own style.don't worry about what others think because its your life.
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Thanks :)
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AcidBanter said:
Don't take it as a negative thing, sometimes when people are looking at te it's probably cuz they like what you're wearing. Well, that's usually what I think when I look at someone's outfit.

I remember one girl had a victorian style dress, but she had a modern Gothic edge to it, she really suited it.

Just remember it's not a bad thing to turn a few heads.
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Thank te :) it's just i don't like getting stared at but i don't want to dress any differently and i shouldn't have to
RnBStar13 posted più di un anno fa
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Then don't. Don't let anybody make te feel bad about your style. It's yours, not theirs :)
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vampiressJazz said:
I think it's cool te dress like that :) it's unique, one of a kind. Don't care what others think there probably jealous that te have the confidence to dress that way.

Dressing how te want is fine just as long as te don't dress like your homeless o a slut.
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Thank te :) well I don't have confidence, i'm far from it, i just feel comfortable with the way I dress :) it's how I express myself
RnBStar13 posted più di un anno fa
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Np :) if te dress how comfortably then it's easier to boost your confidence (:
vampiressJazz posted più di un anno fa
terhenetar said:
It depends on how they stare. If te dress the way te described, it is only to be expected that people will look at you, simply because they see something out of ordinary. It doesn't necesserily mean that they will stare in a negative and/or judgemental way. It is natural that in a group of, say, 20 people dressed in jeans and t-shirts a person dressed in an 'anime way' will stand out.
So yes, if te do not want to attract attention te should dress in a più typical way. te are the only person who can say whether this attraction bothers te o not. If it doesn't, keep on dressing the way te do. :) If it does, well, there is another question: Do people just stare o do te notice their negative attitude as well? I'm afraid that there's nothing te can do about those who do not accept individuality and want everyone to dress all the same, apart from ... ignoring them.
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jester616 said:
I think te probably have più confidence than te think. It takes guts to stand out. Last anno my daughter had the same problem at her old school. She's artistic and designs her own clothes, o she likes to wear dresses from the '40s. Other people stared o commented, usually negatively. When she tried to dress più "normal", she then got flack for trying to fit in. Ultimately she decided that it's worthless to please others, so she dresses how she likes. Don't let other people get to you. You're young--enjoy it.
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