Well i believe the Destiny shot that Lucas did in the show. In real life not so much...

General rule: No fucking way in hell. Even if you fall in love right at first sight,there`s no way you will develop a steady relationship with that person. It`s more likely to experience a passionate romance which will have tons of ups and downs and might last for a while, but that person will not be THE ONE for you till you work on your relationship/see how it develops through time/overcome difficulties.

Exception: It kills me to admit it but,being a helpless romantic,i do think there are some pretty rare cases where you see a person...and you just KNOW. Everything that follows is pure destiny.

But generally i no way in hell believe in meant to be crap.

Exception: It kills me to admit it but,being a helpless romantic,i do think there are some pretty rare cases where you see a person...and you just KNOW. Everything that follows is pure destiny.

But generally i no way in hell believe in meant to be crap.

You summed it up perfectly Mare.

In general, no. I do not believe in love at first sight, destined to be together, fated from the start etc etc.

BUT, there is always an exception to the rule.

General rule: No fucking way in hell. Even if you fall in love right at first sight,there`s no way you will develop a steady relationship with that person. It`s more likely to experience a passionate romance which will have tons of ups and downs and might last for a while, but that person will not be THE ONE for you till you work on your relationship/see how it develops through time/overcome difficulties.

couldn't of said it better my self

I feel that if I believe in soulmates i'm destined to get hurt in some way, so i LOVE building a realtionship, forming trust, and bonds. < 3.

Exception: It kills me to admit it but,being a helpless romantic,i do think there are some pretty rare cases where you see a person...and you just KNOW. Everything that follows is pure destiny.

^^ I agree that sometimes there's an exception. You see the person & you just feel it. I believe in that. But I believe too that even if you have a soulmate & you have found it, you don't necessarily had to end with them. You can have a soulmate but if you love somebody else & he/she loves you, she/he doesn't have to be your soulmate for you to end up with that person. If you love each other, like REALLY love each other, they will survive everything that gets in their way.
I don't believe strongly in anything like FATE, MEANT TO BE, SOULMATES thing but sometimes I do believe that some of my actions & stuff that happen in my life are meant to be that way for me to grow up or for something new & unexpected to enter my life. A new meaning. So yeah, I believe in that. But my strongest believe is that you decide what to do in your life. Nobody else. You can change the fate that they have given you.

what sophialover said! ♥

Not when it comes to OTH THAT FOR SURE!!

Yes, I believe in fate mostly & in soul mates you could say.
I believe that BL are soul mates ♥