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How many of te are with Gay/Bi/Lesbion rights?

because i heard that in your bible, that God is against them, saying that the homosexual person will go to hell, if they do not change their ways. no offense but i just find that screwed up.
 K5-HOWL posted più di un anno fa
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Dearheart said:
Can of worms. te have opened it. xD

First, let's be clear about something...did te come to our spot looking for a fight, o do te genuinely want to hear what we have to say? Being "open-minded" goes both ways, te know. Are te willing to try to see things from our point of view?

If so, then here's how I think most of us see it. We believe in God - Father, Son and Holy Spirit - and we believe that the Bible was inspired and dictated directly da Him. And the Bible states pretty clearly that guy with guys and girls with girls is wrong, both in the Old Testament and the New Testament. God designed romantic Amore and marriage to be between a man and a woman only. Man and woman complete each other, temper each other and balance each other out...physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Look at it this way: can te forge a sword using two tongs o two hammers? No, te need one of each - one to lift and support the metal, and one to shape it into something beautiful and strong. Likewise, a godly marriage needs a man and a woman. They are both equally special and important, but in different ways. They fill each other's strengths and weaknesses and they both have natural, different roles to fill; roles assigned to them da the Ultimate Matchmaker to help forge a strong, healthy, godly relationship. Having two men o two women together upsets the balance and distorts God's design for marriage.

Having detto all that...does this give us the go-ahead to hate o disrespect gays, o mean that God hates gay people? Absolutely not...'cause there's this little thing called "love the sinner, hate the sin". While standing firm in the truth is extremely important, it's equally important to reach out in Amore to people and mostra them the grace that our Savior showed us. Unfortunately, many Christians swing to one of two extremes: 1) they hold on to the truth of God's Word so hard that they get obsessed with "being right" and forget to be loving. 2) They become so preoccupied with being loving that they let go of the truth completely just to make others feel better and they get all wishy-washy. Neither of those extremes are good ones. Finding the balance is the key, and a lot of Christians struggle with it; myself included.

I am NOT homophobic, and I hate it when people slap that label on me just because I disagree with homosexuality. I do not hate o fear gay people. I don't look down on them o resent them in any way. (Some of my mom's Friends are gay, and she's a pastor's wife!) If one of my Friends admitted they were addicted to drugs, I'd still Amore them and care about them, but I'd do what I could to help them. I wouldn't drag them kicking and screaming to an NA meeting o anything, because te can't force someone to quit; but I'd still pray for them, talk to them about my concerns and let them know that they can get help if they want to.
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(continued) Likewise, if one of my Friends ever came out of the closet, I wouldn't call off the friendship o force them to "pray away the gay". That's not how God works, and that's not how He'd want me to act towards them. But I'd still be open about my concerns and let them know where they could find help if they ever wanted it.
Dearheart posted più di un anno fa
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LOL. xD Well, erm...thanks for the amen, and I'm glad te agree with my answer...but if te don't mind me asking, why do te hate them? I don't dislike te for saying so, but I still don't think that's a very Christlike attitude. Gesù calls us to reach out in Amore to everyone, especially the sinners and outcasts. "Jesus detto to them, 'It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick. I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.'" --Mark 2:17.
Dearheart posted più di un anno fa
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aks god before te do something wrong and are bad
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thespikedturtle said:
Heck no! I think there's something wrong with that. If God didn't want people to be gay/bi/lesbian, than he could have changed it. Besides, a person can't help it if they are o not, they're born with it!
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So yeah, I agree with you.
thespikedturtle posted più di un anno fa
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I didnt choose to be Bi and te dont know how many times I considered suicide becuase of te people
K5-HOWL posted più di un anno fa
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God may have stated that sexuality is a din. But Adam and Eve were also naked until Satan gave them the idea of shame. And te don't see us walking around naked! And K5-HOWL has an excellent point, there was a man who was murdered in his army base just because he was gay. Do te think he wanted that? If he had the choice of being gay o not, he could have avoided that with ease.
thespikedturtle posted più di un anno fa
Cinders said:
I wasn't gonna touch this domanda with a ten foot pole, for various reasons. The first of which, I'm not Christian, and since your domanda addresses Christians, I don't feel exactly qualified to answer. secondo of all, I don't want to make Christians feel defensive in their own spot. And third of all, I've gotten into this issue several times in the past all across fanpop, and in all honesty, I feel I've exhausted it.

But after Dearheart's response, and reactions to detto response, I decided to put in my two cents.

Someone's beliefs are their own. Question, but don't attack them. For example, calling someone's beliefs "screwed up" isn't exactly fair. Even if te attach the phrase "no offense" to it. I am a big supporter of gay rights. I'm bisexual myself. But if people want to believe that that part of who I am is wrong, so long as they don't yell hate speech at me o trample on my rights, then let them. We have different perspectives, that's all. I try not to assume that my perspective is any più valid than their's.

I don't believe that their visualizzazioni that it is wrong should determine the laws, anymore that I believe vegetarian visualizzazioni should outlaw eating meat. But I'm OK with the fact that they hold those views. In fact, I'm even curious about those views, and have listened to interesting responses, like Dearheart's above me, for example. I still disagree - but it helps me understand their perspective more, and builds mutual respect, I think.

So be careful with these things. It could turn into a brawl, o it can become an experience for which both parties are the richer.
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I agree with this answer as well, very well put.
sesshyswind posted più di un anno fa
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Just curious: @ Cinders, why are te on this spot if te aren't Christian?
MadamOcta13 posted più di un anno fa
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I get that a lot. So I answer it here: link
Cinders posted più di un anno fa
Frizzhead said:
I believe that te are either born with a certain sexuality and as te grow it becomes più obvious especially during puberty. I don't agree with the idea that Amore between a man and a man o a woman and a woman should be seen as a sin. When has Amore ever been a sin and why should it be.
I think the Bible is guidelines for life but there are parts of life whether te have to choose between what the bible states and your own judgements and morals.

I am a Catholic and support gay/Bi/Lesbion rights wholeheartedly.I don't believe te have tp choose between one and the other. I am straight myself but i hate the idea of people being discriminated against based on such a thing as who te are attracted to. So to round it up ...no i don't think Amore is a sin
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:3
K5-HOWL posted più di un anno fa
E-rock said:
Straight :D
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i was asking if u were with Gay rights o not -_-
K5-HOWL posted più di un anno fa
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Oh lololol. i dont kow
E-rock posted più di un anno fa
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so are u o not?
K5-HOWL posted più di un anno fa
fugiami said:
this is how i feel about it. . .adam and eve not adam and steve. but don't get me wrong, personally i have no problems w/ gay o lesbian people. i try to judge people da the content of their character but personaly i don't believe it is natural. like i detto above, adam and eve not adam and steve :)
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I agree!
MadamOcta13 posted più di un anno fa
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te shouldn't judge at all.
Dark-Axl posted più di un anno fa
JesusLover47803 said:
in my personal opinion i think that God still ♥ them but hate the sins
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and why does being gay HAVE to be a sin?
EmoCupCake posted più di un anno fa
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Because it says so in the Bible. Or, to put it another way, God detto so. 'nuff said.
faithinChrist posted più di un anno fa
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OK. Right. This needs to be said. Just because it is in the Bible does not mean it is automatically true. God didn't make us. I don't want to put a faith in Christ that punishes people for loving.
MissKnowItAll posted più di un anno fa
Loveaddict1234 said:
Dearheart is 100% right. Being gay may definetly be a hereditary thing but it has been detto that murder is also hereditery and drugs and being a drunk and all of this. These things are sins none the less. But te have to resist temptations, depending on the person te are, those temptations may be strong o not so strong. Like te have to resist the temptation of drugs, te would also have to resist the temptations of same sex relationships, which could also be stronger than others.
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Well detto :)
peterslover posted più di un anno fa
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Being Gay isn't hereditary. That's like saying being shy is hereditary. It's not.
LoopyLuna96 posted più di un anno fa
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Being gay is not a chioce, how many people do te know who want to choose a life that usually lead to suicide, bulllying, discremination, there was even a boy who was murdered MURDERED for being gay. Do te not know how many gays wish they werent gays because of the things that happen to them. >:(
K5-HOWL posted più di un anno fa
MadamOcta13 said:
Not true! God doesn't send people to Hell just because of that! That person can't help the way they are! No, it's how they act on those feelings that is judged. I'm Catholic, so what I was taught was that gay marriges aren't appropiate, because it has to do with the fact that God created man and woman to be together, not man and man o woman and woman. But just because te feel that way doesn't mean that you'll go to Hell (again, I'm Catholic; other religions might have a different take).
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God also created Hermaphadites
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MissKnowItAll said:
Can opened... worms everywhere

But I am completely FOR!
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Lolly4me2 said:
I'm with the rights.
I have some gay and bi friends, actually...
I mean, that doesn't make God Amore me any less, right?
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uscfever94 said:
I think that as long as we believe that God is our creator and Gesù died on the attraversare, croce for our sins to be forgiven, in which he is our savior, then God won't banish us to Hell because we are saved. Correct me if I'm wrong but our salvation cannot be tooken from us once we have accepted Christ. All sins are equal so being gay is equal to telling a little white lie to get out of a speeding ticket o a date. Thats just what I think but I'd Amore to get some feedback on my opinion.
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Amore the icona
K5-HOWL posted più di un anno fa
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I agree!
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LoopyLuna96 said:
Why shouldn't they have the same rights? They're still Human. Everyone has the right to love!
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sapherequeen said:
I am! :)
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In case this didn't make sense; I'm for Gay Rights. I myself may be bisexual.
sapherequeen posted più di un anno fa
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Same here.
zanesaaomgfan posted più di un anno fa
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