since the beginning of this mostra till now I've always thought that the writers have been incrediblely unfair when it came to the story of Stefan and Elena , they've dato them a terrible story with no build up, poor moments with absolutely no spark o depth whereas Damon and Elena always get this kind of heartbreaking , emotional scenes... and this mostra was supposed to be about a Amore triangolo !!! so is this a misshap from the writers o is it exactly what they want us to think ...I highly dought that the writers are incapable of Scrivere stelena a proper story ,because they've done a very great job with delena and other couples in the show,like(klaus and Caroline ) they've dato them epic moments in such a short time and absolutely out of nowhere , they made most of fan root for them overnight with a couple of scenes written properly ....in conclusion these writers are so talented they can make us root for Tyler and klaus!! If they wanted to ..... So why not with Stefan and Elena if they're supposed to be the "epic " Amore story of the mostra -unless they're not and that's what the writers want us to see ... this is why I made a comparison between the way the writers have written both stelena and delena ... first: stelena: first of all their " epic"meeting :they meet at the men's bathroom !!!! ok I don't even have to commento on that , let's get to their first baciare which happened on the secondo episode which was the secondo giorno the met -I guess Elena never heard of the saying " never baciare a boy on the first data ...." moving inoltrare, avanti to the first time they had sex which happened on the tenth episode which is probably two weeks after they first met -way to go Elena te lasted two weeks !!!! and speaking of the Amore scene-what was that ??!! Stefan spent the whole scene pushing her away , unable to resist the urge to drink her blood ( and ripping her head off) and the director must have told them " if te mostra any sign of passion te will be fired " and not to mention the song choice "cut " ..really !! no wonder I felt like they were about to commit suicide rather than make Amore ... and of course Elena then finds out accidently that she looks exactly like Katherine -way to go Stefan sleep with the girl before te tell her why te "had" to know her...this brings me to the trust issue ;Stefan and Elena suffer from this issue greatly ....I remember the scene where I officially hated Stefan ( 2x01) where Stefan goes behind her back , force-feeds her father his blood and threatens to turn him into a vampire "the thing he hates most " so he can watch him hate himself !!! then he goes back to Elena , acts all inoscent , he even lies about what he did right to her face .... other than this there isn't actually anything compelling about them o their scenes .in fact we've never seen an " I Amore te Elena " from Stefan , rather than the random everyday ones ... and this makes me wonder (is Stefan really uncapable of saying o doing romantic things ) I don't think so .. Think of all the flashbacks of him and katherine ..the way he tells her he loves her " I look at te and I see an Angel , I touch your skin and my whole body ignites , I baciare your lips and I know I'm falling in Amore .... see how he talks to Katherine , how he looks at her , how he was più than thrilled to escort her to the founders giorno party -with Elena he hates to dance..and also the Amore scene between him and Katherine in the flashback , it was so full of passion (Stefan :I will Amore te forever. Katherine : forever is a very long time .stefan: not long enough) . see Stefan CAN be passionate and loving -why not with Elena ? does he Amore her ? if so how and when ? because she's the opposite of Katherine ! Caroline is the opposite of Katherine ,Bonnie too ... so many girls are the opposite of Katherine .. what made him Amore Elena ? -she's not exactly the opposite of Katherine they have a lot più in common than their looks- the writers have never explained why he loves Elena (unless they've already did "when Katherine told Stefan that he came back to mystic falls to fall in Amore with her all over again " ) before I end things about stelena there's still something I really hate about them it's that they always baciare o have sex in completely un appropriate times ... Like in 2x10 ( Stefan was locked in the tomp with katherine so Elena makes a deal with elijah in order to get him out of the tomp... after Elijah gets him out Stefan goes to Elena's room and they immediately start having sex with out even talking about what kind of a deal Elena made with an original evil vampire ... I mean come on what was that -I know that spending the giorno with a stripping Katherine can drive te crazy - but dude atleast be a little considerate and ask her how the hell she got te out of that tomp before te unlock her bra !!! ). secondo : delena : I want to start with the miss mystic falls dance when it all started to me ... Damon and Elena share an amazing and very important dance , a dance that the writers have made very clear that it very much represents their relationship , first it was an unplanned dance " it was just meant to be " , it's a "no touching dance " that is centered around the eyes and the anticipation of the " almost touch" and that's exactly what Damon and Elena have been doing for almost three seasons(fighting the temptation to give into the "touch") .....the first time Damon tells Elena he loves her is the most heartbreaking , compelling Amore confession I've ever seen in tv (I just have to say It once , te just need to hear it ) it was so emotional It brought me into tears ( not just me , my sister and my mom too) ... the fact that he loves her so much that he's willing to let her go because he thinks he doesn't deserve her ... he couldn't even tell her that he loves her with out making her forget ,he thinks that those three little words are the most selfish thing he's ever detto in his life .... just speaking about this scene makes me emotional so I'll skip to the successivo one ... Their first baciare : on the first episode of season two Elena begins the season saying that she would never baciare Damon ..on the season finale Elena is lying successivo to him ,holding him in her arms ,devastated that this might be the last time she ever sees him ...and on his final breaths he tells her that he knows she loves Stefan and that it will always be Stefan but she should know that he loves her too ... They share a very intense and emotional scene that ends with her applying a gentle baciare on his lips .... (I like te now,just the way te are) .... their first meeting : well their meetings are so special that the writers made them meet twice ..first (their second/first meeting ) Damon sneaks up behind her ,they start talking and before she leaves Damon kisses her hand ... Their actual first meeting : which is revealed three seasons later , right after Elena tells him that she might have chosen him if only they had met first .... which they did ... this is what makes it più heartbreaking that he met her first , they talked and it was epic ,she flirted with him , he told her to get everything she wanted to get from life but then he compels her to forget because unlike Stefan he wouldn't drag her into his life just because she looks exactly like Katherine (he wasn't looking for a replacement ) .... moving inoltrare, avanti to their first Amore scene which of course happened on the giorno of miss mystic falls competition , and of course it starts with a dance only this time they are allowed to " touch" ... It was a very passionate scene that focused on the eyes ,the hands and the lips "almost like their dances" ,with an excellent choice of Musica ,lighting and of course " fire" to represent the fuoco that's been burning inside of them for so long until it was finally their time to give into the "touch" .... Elena's choice : right after Elena choses Stefan she says she was ready to die .... right after Elena choses Damon she fights for her life , she was willing to do anything " losing the cure" for the chance of staying alive ... and Elena always believed that te should be with person who makes te feel glad to be alive , if Stefan was that person why was she ready to die right after choosing him .... now after all of this if the writers wanted stelena to be the "couple "of the story , why didn't they ? -unless they don't .... this explains why most people want Damon and Elena to be together ,because that's what the story is telling ....
