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If te watched the interaction between Delena in episode 2x03, it's likely te will fall into one of two camps: those who lament Elena's aloofness towards Damon, o those who think that actually, Elena is perfectly justified in giving Damon the ice-cold treatment.
I don't think the fan who fall into the first category are under any illusion that what Damon did was twisted and evil; nor do I think they would want to downplay his actions o think Elena should forgive him at the drop of a hat. If Elena did that, then it wouldn't make her credible as a character, and it would make what Damon did seem like it wasn't a vicious thing to do when it was. If DE fan have expressed any sort of annoyance towards Elena in this episode, I think it's because we saw a different kind of Elena - one who thought it was OK to manipulate Damon instead of being honest with him, continuing to be snarky with him after he saved her life...but first, let's talk about the SE kiss.

Let's be direct: the baciare between SE wasn't about them, it was a deliberate sposta to make Damon jealous. It's not all Elena though, I think Stefan definitely played along too. At the forefront of his mind, he was probably remembering the moment when Damon told him that he kissed 'Elena' in 2x01, and the baciare was Stefan's way of gloating to his brother 'Ha ha, Damon she's mine.'
As for Elena - well, right up until the moment she kisses Stefan, she looks at Damon in a cold, pointed way. The baciare goes on for slightly longer than is necessary - they would never have done that if Alaric o Jenna had been standing there. Damon knows what they're doing and after a moment, looks away as if it pains him to watch. I think SE are all too aware that Damon is looking on and are secretly enjoying rubbing it in his face. Elena knows Damon has feelings for her. Stefan knows Damon has feelings for Elena. It's a vindictive sposta on their part, and coming from Elena, it almost feels like she's using Stefan to get back at Damon. Which is ridiculous on the face of it. Damon did something terrible to her, that's true. But SHE rejected HIM, not the other way round. The SE baciare reminded me very much of the girl who has been rejected da the boy she wants, and has to go and do something very immature to prove he hasn't hurt her da making out with another boy in front of him. te have to domanda Elena and wonder: why did she act like that if she didn't feel anything towards Damon?

The scenes at Duke...
In a blink-and-you'll-miss-it moment, Damon darts into the path of an on-coming Arrow aimed straight for Elena and gets hit in the back. Although she initially shows concern for him (it's in the background, but she does kneel down to tend to Damon), it doesn't last long. te might think that his saving her life would signify a change in Elena's behaviour, but it doesn't. When Damon threatens to kill Elena's would-be assassin, Elena tells him she'll never speak to him again if he does.
'What makes te think that has any power over me?' he challenges her. 'Because I took an Arrow in the back for you?'
'I forgot I was speaking to a psychotic mind who snaps and kills people impulsively,' she fires back. (This scene is very reminiscent of their banter in 1x17 'Let The Right One In' when she calls him 'a self-serving psychopath with no redeeming qualities.')
Later on, Damon remarks that it's too bad they're not Friends anymore, otherwise he could tell her what he knows. He hints that he has valuable information on Katherine, but he's not going to tell Elena with 'that attitude,' which disgruntles her. She points out that 'Friends don't manipulate friends. They help each other.'
Her words seem to have a good effect on Damon, because he gives her a book on Katherine, telling her she didn't dig deep enough.

'You have every right to hate me. I understand. te hated me before and we became friends. It would suck if that was gone forever so...is it? Have I Lost te forever?'

This was a considerable speech for Damon to make. The sarcasm and typical bravado he uses to disguise how he truly feels is absent for a change. He gets why Elena hates him, but he would be sorry to lose her as a friend. I thought it perfectly expressed how much he cared for her and how much he valued her friendship.
Elena refrains from actually giving him an answer 'Thank te for the book Damon' which made me wonder if she would have detto no at that point. She's simply not ready to mostra she could forgive him yet.

As if Damon is remembering the last time they went on a roadtrip in 1x11, he quips 'Road trips work well for us...I know I chipped a little bit off your bacheca of hatred.'
Before Elena can forgive him, she asks if he knew Jeremy was wearing the ring. te can tell what Damon's answer is before he says it from the pained expression on his face. He apologizes and is full of remorse for his actions. 'I don't know what I would have done if he wasn't wearing it.'
Elena's face hardens and becomes hostile again. She tells him he has indeed Lost her forever. But before the scene ends, and we go away thinking that yet again, Damon has wronged Elena and Elena is the innocent one, the story is kind of turned on its head. When Damon confronts her with the fact that she 'used' him, she doesn't deny it. 'I thought Friends didn't manipulate friends', he states, echoing the same words she detto to him at Duke. He tells her that she and Katherine have a lot più in common than just looks, and Elena doesn't know what to say. Damon walks away and leaves her on her porch staring after him.

It would have been so much easier for Damon to lie again and tell her he knew all along Jeremy was wearing the ring. He knew that would have been much easier than telling the truth because Elena would have been much più likely to have forgiven him in the end. He knew that in telling the truth, he ran an enormous risk in losing her for good. But he didn't lie. Isn't it ironic that Stefan, the 'good' brother finds it easy to lie to Elena, and Damon - the evil, 'psychotic' one doesn't? Damon knows how much Elena values honesty. I think he also wanted to know if she would still accept and possibly Amore him if he told her the truth, so he did.
Whether Elena was justified in telling Damon he had Lost her as a friend forever o not, she detto it out of anger, hurt, shock...and because she wanted to hurt him. However, just for the record, I happen to believe that if she really did lose him forever and never saw him again, then she would be pretty devastated. As dramatic as that would be for her, a catastrophic 'he's gone from my life' moment could be exactly what Elena needs to acknowledge how much Damon means to her.
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WHY THE "VAMPIRE DIARIES"–BOOKS da LISA JANE SMITH LEAD TO DAMON AND ELENA AS A COUPLE IN THE END:

1    The development of their feelings for each other and of their relationship would make no sense otherwise; everything could have stayed like it was at the beginning. But the relationship of Damon and Elena develops further and further instead of sticking to how it was at the start between them. Their Amore for each other becomes stronger and stronger, and this intensification of the feelings that they have for each other still doesn’t seem to stop any time soon.

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Some opinions Stelena’s shippers think about Damon and Elena relationship that doesn’t make any sense!!

[b]Elena will always Amore Stefan, no matter what she feels for Damon[b]
It is not because she will never unfell for him that she doesn’t Amore Damon, her Amore for Damon “consumes her”. Stefan is the sicuro, cassetta di sicurezza choice, which is why she would rather choose him and not Damon who “sabotage things”. Damon and Elena only have four kisses, and she kisses him in 3x19, I mean te can hate the ship but don’t deny it, If Elena doesn’t Amore Damon as much as she loves Stefan o even più than...
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posted by delena-elemon
I have this strange feeling that after Damon realizes that Elena has not died died loool ,and that she has become a vampire ,he will keep to the promise which he made stefan and leave mystic falls ,without meeting Elena,i mean think about it the fact that a scene has been created where meredith tells Damon about the vamp blood ect ect has been done for a reason,i dont think he will stay,i mean come on there needs to be a twist its vampire diaries,i dont think elena will wake up remember what damon made her forget and then they meet straight away,i think she will remember and da that time he will be ...

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First things first DO NOT BASH, read the whole articolo first then commento your opinion but please try as much as te can to respect others opinions

To clear things I hate Stefan but I 'I'll do try my best to be subjective ok, to start things off I'm Scrivere this articolo because how Caroline was bashing Damon in last night episode (3x04) I mean did she have loss her memories o something did she forget that he almost died because he saved her life and her werewolf boyfriend , and before all of he saved her life did she forget that he saved Elena's life più than once that he made plans and took...
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"DE fan don't care about Elena. But to an extent, they don't care about Damon either. They Amore and obsess over him."

This is one of the most pathetic things I've heard a Bamon fan say, especially from a Bamon fan itself. From almost every Bamon fan I've come across, they seem to see Bonnie as the ultimate person on the show, they see her a godess, when in realitly she isn't that big of character, o likable. For every Bamon fan, it seems that their favourite character is in fact Bonnie, what a suprise. Bamon fan can't get enough of her, just ask any of them, their favourite character will...
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posted by delenasalvatore
Before Season 2 drew to a close, it had not been particularly DE (or indeed, Amore triangle) friendly. Instead, the writers chose to do the unthinkable, and throw the triangolo right off its tracks, slowing the development of DE's relationship right down until te began to wonder if it was moving anywhere at all. But all the anguish, blood, sweat and tears DE went through (not to mention the fans), were worth it. It made the finale even più rewarding in the end. I know that some DE shippers think that 2x21 was the turning point we'd been waiting for, but for me, the finale was the turning point...
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A lot of us here have great ideas as to why DE should be together. Here's our chance to mostra the media exactly why it should be Delena. I've seen a lot of well thought out arguments, debates, and essays here so I encourage all of te to participate in this contest :)

If te are a fan of either Elena-Stefan o Elena-Damon, write up an essay explaining why they are the couple of The Vampire Diaries. it to 350 words o less, keep it civil (no tearing down opposing fandoms), and try confine your arguments to what we've seen so far on the mostra proper. (Source material is for sissies!)

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