That's one of the many reasons my husband & I we keep arguing about lately. I'm sorry, but I'd rather not answer this poll question, if that's OK with you. My marriage comes first. I think it's worth saving, don't you think? I know what my first choice would be, but I don't wanna lose a husband over some Gay Love poll. Yes, you heard it right. Seán's been checking on me & he's really become rather obsessed with my Fanpop picks lately. So, in order to save our marriage from falling apart, I'll just skip this question & stay neutral. Btw, we have to move once again. An Englishman in Dublin. Bad idea!! We have a lot of problems lately. Not just because of Fanpop, of course. I don't wanna risk a divorce over a Fanpop poll question! Hope you understand, my friend. I love Seán with all of my heart & soul, so if I ever have to choose between Fanpop & Seán, you know what (or better said, who) my choice would be! Anyway, I'm an Englishman & a very modern one, so can you guess what my choice would be? Besides, we cannot have a proper family without children & I'm still not an Irish citizen, so both of those options are currently unavailable for me. This is a rather painful subject for me right now. Let's hope Seán would finally agree with me on my suggestion of both of us moving some place else, where we can both be equal as strangers in a foreign country & start all over again. It's either that, or a divorce! Sadly, it has all come to this: Moving away from Dublin, or breaking apart!! I don't wanna divorce. I'm sorry, but I can't answer this question right now. It's too painful for me. Who knows, perhaps in a couple of months. I can only tell you that the adoption would be my husband's one & only choice, that's all.

^Is it really that bad? Are you sure you wanna leave Dublin so soon? That's a very big decision, my friend. You just left Belfast couple of months ago, remember? Are you ready to move again? Where would you like to go with your husband? Have the 2 of you made any plans yet? I'm sorry to hear you have problems in your marriage. My only wish is for both of you to be happy. I wish you all the best in life, my friend, and to your husband 2! Please come to Italy! Such a beautiful country.

^No, it's not that bad as you think, my friend. It's much worse!! We don't even speak to each other for days now. I'm afraid this may be the end of our marriage. I'll try everything to save our marriage, but it takes 2 to make it work again. I can't save my marriage by myself! We have to leave this city & this country soon. Both UK & Ireland are just not the right place to be for the 2 of us. We don't actually belong anywhere. Italy sounds great, but we have to move to some country whose language we can both speak. I don't speak Italian (yet) & neither does my husband. Sorry. :-(

^Thank you for your best wishes, my friend. I wish you the same.