2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your data home and they don’t let te get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight baciare isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips o a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that te can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a sposta if te feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight baciare scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies mostra that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to sposta in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your data steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first baciare with your date. This means no tongue o special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his o her world! te can place your hand on the small of their neck if te wish.
If your data is enthusiastic, te may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, più involved kiss. However, only do this if te feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of baciare too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting più than to make them regret baciare te in the first place.
If te get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, o if te feel your data getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your data is waiting for a while to go inside, baciare her. She wants te to.
-If te feel your data trying to sposta away o say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" o your data has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your data probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight baciare on someone.
-Add commenti such as "Tonight was amazing" o "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and mostra her that te mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching te go.
-If te want to be extra cute te could even baciare her hand o forehead, but be wary of the forehead baciare as some girls find it patronizing o granddad-like.
Warning
-If your data is facing the other way, do not grab his o her head and turn it to face te for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) baciare in front of friends, whether they’re yours o your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around baciare anyone, anytime! te may be charged with sexual assault if te sposta too aggressively.
