Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay o bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors o feelings they have make them gay o bi.

But really, asking other people to tell te whether o not te are gay o straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what te do every day. It's up to te to figure that out on your own!

If that leaves te feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered da you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:

1. You cannot choose who te are. Don't let anyone convince te that te should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on te and tell te who te are! Only te know how te feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, o anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay o straight. Many struggle with it for years o even their whole lives.

So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.

And some of us don't want to be labeled o are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, da no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!

I hope this articolo has helped te discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who te are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, o anything else!